Generic Elle and Rynn Reverie
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Inside Amy Schumer, Season: 3 Episode: 1
Learning time with @kinbakunokaiji and @fred-rx earlier this evening 👍✨
My wife was a performer on a trans-site for a brief while. We started dating afterward, and have been hitched for 6 years this December. Out of a total of 12 years together, not once have I asked, nor have I wanted her to fuck me, and I’m pan-sexual. ;D
If some like it, great. Others don’t, fine. I think it’s tantamount to harassment to force someone into a role they’re uncomfortable with, either topping or bottoming.
Final word, you do you Jessica. Keep playing by your rules. Love the content BTW. 😊
I've noticed what you talking about with how trans girls are required to top translated into normal sex. I (a trans woman) can meet a guy tell him I'm bottom only, and then mid sex hes like "so are you going to fuck me or what", and I've actually had someone refer to porn as why i should fuck him despite me being a bottom. he told me every trans girl likes to fuck guys. like what the fuck? its dumb and i wish you the best, bottom girl solidarity
That is exactly why when I started porn I was like “hey, if the arguement is that I’m in porn because I’m a girl, I’m not going to touch my penis. If I’m a girl that’s not necesary. If I can’t be in this porno without fucking some dude in the ass then you’re not booking me because I’m a girl you’re booking me because I’m a shemale. And my transition, my femininity, my identity isn’t up for sale like that. I’ll get fucked like a slut like a girl, but I won’t be a shemale.” and that’s what got me in tons and tons of trouble. That’s why after getting on the cover of the only trans magazine for the swimsuit edition the year after Aubrey Kate, Evil Angel wouldn’t film me, Trans500 wouldn’t film me, Trans Angels wouldn’t film me. These guys take it as a personal attack that I won’t use my cock. They even write in to websites and say things like “Don’t you ever hire her again!”They don’t care that most trans girls are human, feminine, and submissive. They don’t care that producing this content for them to jerk off over results in girls like you going out and dating and having guys tell you to your face what I heard on my first porno set “well you’re a tranny sweet heart so just do the tranny thing”We’re not allowed to be seen like girls are seen. They put us in a box and make us do these dominant aggressive shemale things so they can jerk off. They say “that’s what sells!” when I have 28,000 followers on tumblr, 53,000 followers on twitter, 63,000 followers on instagram. I have 69 subscribers to my onlyfans and there isn’t even a single video of me touching my penis ever. If it doesn’t sell then how did a girl with almost no mainstream exposure what so ever sell 69 subscribtions to guys who will never see her touch her penis? They are creating a culture where we don’t get to be as feminine as our genetic female counterparts and we all wonder why victoria’s secret won’t let us walk the run way. Only final note on this. All the producers who insist this is what sells and it’s what we have to do? They don’t date trans girls. Not a single one of them. They all date genetic girls. They turn us into a sexually dominant fetish and use us and go back to their cunt. They’re around trans girls all day, work with trans girls, insist this is how we have to be, and then go home to their genetic women.
Learning time with @kinbakunokaiji and @fred-rx earlier this evening 👍✨
Looking for tutorials? Blogs to follow? Want to figure out that one tie you saw at the dungeon last week? This post has got you covered – written to be accessible for complete newbies, with resources even old hats at rope bondage can appreciate be they bottom or top.
(1) Tutorial Websites and Videos
Beautiful Bondage
Cam Damage
Crash Restraint Website
Crash Restraint Youtube
deGiotto Rope
EpicRope
Esinem Website
Esinem Shibari Classes
Evie Vane’s Videos
Kinbaku Luxuria
Kinbaku Today
Kink Academy
Kissmedeadly Doll References
Miss Eris
ReKink Rope Bondage Tutorials
Rope Baby
Rope Connections
RopeTopia Resources
RVA Rope
Secondfloor Lotus Studio
Shibari.Ph Resources
The Dutchy
The Twisted Monk
Two Knotty Boys Video Downloads
(2) Safety and Technique Information*
* = most of the website and video list also covers safety information
Kinky Clover Rope Bottom Guide
How to Be an Awesome Rope Bottom
A Guide For Rope Bottoms and Bondage Models
Bondage Safety for Bottoms
Resources for Rope Bottoms
Safety with Rope
BDSMWiki: Beginner Rope Bondage
Blackout: What to Do When Someone Faints
Crash Restraint Rope Advice
Fixing Problems Before They Happen
Free: Bondage Safety
Rope Incident Reports
On Circulation
On Nerve Damage
Pain in Kinbaku
Nerves in Rope Bondage
Nerve Injury Reference Card
Nerve Injury Treatment and Management
Remedial Ropes
Self-Suspension
Shibari.Ph: Read This Before Trying Bondage
What is Shibari?
Who Can be Suspended?
(3) Books
The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up by Evie Vane
Better Bondage for Every Body by Evie Vane
Rope Bondage The Smart Way: A Step By Step Guide To Using Rope Bondage In BDSM by Pete Riggs
Shibari You Can Use by Lee Harrington and RiggerJay
More Shibari You Can Use by Lee Harrington and RiggerJay
Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys
Two Knotty Boys Back on the Ropes by Two Knotty Boys
The Seductive Art of Japanese Rope Bondage by Midori
The Beauty of Kinbaku by Master “K”
Essence of Shibari: Kinbaku and Japanese Rope Bondage by Shin Nawakari
Rogue Hojojutsu by Douglas Kent
Complete Shibari Volume 1: Land by Douglas Kent
Complete Shibari Volume 2: Sky by Douglas Kent
Bondage For Sex by Chanta Rose
Tie Me Up! The Complete Guide to Bondage by Stephan Niederwieser
(4) Tumblr Blogs
@schwein-child , @goodmorningm0therfucker , @kissmedeadlydoll
@camdamage @ropebaby , @hornyropebunny @tohjiro
@japanesebdsmofficial @squirmforgood @evilthell, @amaury-grisel-shibari
@rumen-basheff , @kanan0690, @theropediary @jewelryandfire
@cubicletocollar, @em-ties, @strictly-dirtyvonp, @secondfloor-fet
@gaping-lotus, @jesseflanagan, @nawayoi @uncoiled-rope , @boshai,
@tieduptee, @furi0usge0rge, @daddysprettypinkprincess, @shibarikuma,
@daddyrigsme, @shaktibliss @nikolasromanov, @tied-yuno,
@kinkyropecuriosity @danielriquelme-shibari @tentesion, @wykd-dave,
@ella-winters, @squirmforgood, @bondage-gifs, @master-rene-will,
@orpheusblack, @alekzander-kinbaku, @misunguided @untitledminor,
@tied-yuno, @kbnawa, @ropedisco, @cordineclubarchives,
@tiedandtwisted420, @fred-rx, @skinny-redhead, @nikolasromanov,
@enbydea, @neckropenightmare, @hangknot, @se7enbondage
Tumblr blog list from @thebeautyofrope‘s awesome post because I simply could not do a better or more complete job myself
Please note that none of these links, references or websites are meant to serve as a complete guide to rope bondage by themselves. Rope classes and real life instruction are invaluable, and online materials do not make a complete substitute for learning best possible practices. Stay safe and have fun!
I'm a 42 year old pansexual male. I’m an artist, poly, and enjoy swinging kinky fun. My posts on here reflect that. Please do not message me about being a sub of any kind.
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