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Well, that’s enough internet for me today.
This is literally the last month you can reblog this joke
Carmen Liu, trans woman and entrepreneur, has launched a lingerie collection for trans women.
She says:
“I had this business idea circulating in my mind for two years, thinking of how I would design the lingerie if I had the opportunity,” she says. “I wouldn’t say there was lightbulb moment as such. The idea hit me due to pure frustration of not being able to buy lingerie. Once I got the green light I began working 16 hours most days to cover every detail and possible option that would benefit and bring positive change to our community.”
This is a line that also fits transgender women who have not had gender confirmation surgery.
The G.I. Collection.
Forbes has more about this.
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I need some help with dysphoria. I'm not able to start E for about another year or two, but I'm really dysphoric about my hair in general. I haven't been able to grow it out, so that's one thing that bothers me, but also it's starting to recede and thin, and I need support and advice for preventing it as much as possible and cope with how much I've lost already. Sorry, long ask, its just really bothering me and worrying me.
Hi anon! I’m sorry you’re feeling nervous and dysphoric. I know that feeling and it really sucks.
If you’re able, I’d talk to your doctor about hair regrowth treatments. There are medications out there that can help slow or stop hair loss, depending on a few factors. Unfortunately, since I am not a doctor, I don’t know what drugs are good options for you or if there are any safe OTC drugs you could look into.
The good news is, there are trans women who had receded hairlines pre-E who have beautiful long, natural hair now. There are some examples of them in the Before and After tag.
I hope you’re able to get the help you need soon!
(Just thought I’d share this in case someone finds it useful!)
If you’re feeling like there is no hope, know that there are people who can help. Our friends at Crisis Text Line offer free support by text, 24/7. #WorldSuicidePreventionDay
Want to create a religion for your fictional world? Here are some references and resources!
General:
General Folklore
Various Folktales
Heroes
Weather Folklore
Trees in Mythology
Animals in Mythology
Birds in Mythology
Flowers in Mythology
Fruit in Mythology
Plants in Mythology
Folktales from Around the World
Africa:
Egyptian Mythology
African Mythology
More African Mythology
Egyptian Gods and Goddesses
The Gods of Africa
Even More African Mythology
West African Mythology
All About African Mythology
African Mythical Creatures
Gods and Goddesses
The Americas:
Aztec Mythology
Haitian Mythology
Inca Mythology
Maya Mythology
Native American Mythology
More Inca Mythology
More Native American Mythology
South American Mythical Creatures
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Aztec Gods and Goddesses
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More Japanese Mythology
Chinese and Japanese Mythical Creatures
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Chinese Gods and Goddesses
Hindu Gods and Goddesses
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Europe:
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Etruscan Mythology
Greek Mythology
Latvian Mythology
Norse Mythology
Roman Mythology
Arthurian Legends
Bestiary
Celtic Gods and Goddesses
Gods and Goddesses of the Celtic Lands
Finnish Mythology
Celtic Mythical Creatures
Gods and Goddesses
Middle East:
Islamic Mythology
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Middle Eastern Mythical Creatures
Oceania:
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Mythology of the Polynesian Islands
Melanesian Mythology
Massive Polynesian Mythology Post
Maori Mythical Creatures
Hawaiian Gods and Goddesses
Hawaiian Goddesses
Gods and Goddesses
Creating a Fantasy Religion:
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Fantasy Religion Design Guide
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Religion in Fantasy
Creating Fantasy Worlds
Beliefs in Fantasy
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Lee says:
Here’s a transitioning starter pack for all my trans folk out there!
Your transition is up to you- we want to provide information on all your options so you can make an informed decision about what you want. If you find a resource useful, then use it! If you’re not interested in doing any of the things listed, then don’t!
Presentation:
Tucking
Chest area
Voice
Broad shoulders tips
Hair removal
Feminine walk
Curves
Waist training
Growing out your hair
Clothing
Makeup
Passing
Medical transitioning:
Not medically transitioning
Fertility
Puberty blockers
Estrogen & anti-androgens/testosterone blockers FAQ
The types of surgery available
Surgery: A guide for transfeminine people
Pumping (Silicone injections)
Facial Feminization Options
Breast Augmentation
Other:
Representation
Transfeminine period dysphoria
Yes, Transfeminine People Can Get Period Symptoms
Slipping into masculinity
Women’s restroom etiquette
Transfeminine people can breastfeed
Having sex or masturbating
Presentation:
Binding FAQ
Clothing
Facial hair
Masculine makeup
Getting short hair / Masculine long hair
If you can’t start T
Lowering your voice
Packing and standing to pee
Passing as male
Not shaving legs
Medical transitioning:
Not medically transitioning
Fertility
Puberty blockers
Testosterone FAQ
Top surgery
Facial masculinization surgery
Body masculinization surgery
Hysterectomy and oophorectomy
Bottom surgery (genital surgery)
Other:
Periods and related things
Help! I need to see a gyno
Pumping
Masturbation and sex
Using the men’s bathroom
Hudson’s FTM Guide
Height dysphoria
Hip dysphoria
What gender am I? A brief intro to questioning
Trans 101 for trans people
What is the transgender umbrella?
How do I choose a name?
How do I come out at work/school or to family/friends?
Dysphoria info and tips page
Mental health coping page
Being trans in school
Non-binary resources
Resources to send allies/friends
A page to send to parents/guardians
Convincing someone to respect name/pronouns
Here is how to get hormones in the US
Here is how to get hormones in the UK
The NHS’s Guide For Young Trans People in England
Here’s a US resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker
Here is a UK resource with info on changing legally changing your name and gender marker
What are the WPATH-SOC guidelines?
How to save money
How to buy a trans-related item online without parents knowing
I have to go swimming, what do I wear/do?
Trying to sleep when you have dysphoria
Airposts and traveling by plane
Gender neutral bathrooms
Getting insurance to cover your transition
Does transitioning help mental health?
Trans teen’s experiences with inpatient hospitalization
Trans identity isn’t a mental disorder
Vaping prevalence
Summer tips
Being religious and LGBT
Transgender Lives: Your Stories (to see trans adults)
Gender neutral pronouns in Spanish
Gender Variance Around the World Over Time
A map of gender-diverse cultures
American LGBT history by the National Parks Service
Crisis help: Suicide and crisis hotlines
Anyone can reblog, including allies!
Lee says:
Gathering up the #nsfw transfeminine resources!
Masturbation:
NSFW-ish tips
Masturbation, Relationships, and Sex: A Guide for Trans and Gender Variant People
Alternate Masterbation Technique For Trans*Women
Submission: An Alternate Masturbation Technique for Trans Women
Sex Toys for Trans Women
Another list of sex toys for trans women
Transfeminine specific: Having sex and masturbating [Broken link?]
Relationships:
10 Essential Dating Tips For Trans Women
Trans-friendly dating apps
Sex:
Talking to your partner about having sex
Coping with dysphoria while having sex
How to Have Lesbian Sex With a Trans Woman
A Guide to Muffing: The Hidden Way to Finger Trans Women
Your First Time: A Sexual Guide for Non-Binary People Working Through Trauma
Safer sex
How to put a condom on
Having sex and STIs
Consent
All About Birth Control Methods
What is consent, assault & harassment?
Don’t let lube slip your mind! / All About Lube
Safer sex for trans bodies
How I Started To Learn Trans Sex Ed (And How You Can, Too)
Here Is A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex
Harnesses For Trans* Women
Sexual activities that aren’t penis-in-vagina sex
Followers, feel free to add on!
How do I make my masculine walk more feminine?
Chrissi says:
This is really an important part of transition for trans feminine folks, and one gender therapists seem to forget. Here’s some steps that should help.
Focus your weight into your hips. Cismales tend to walk with their weight in their arms or stomachs. Think of a model walking a runway — her steps are light and her shoulders are back.
Swing your hips as you step. While an overly enthusiastic swing will certainly be noticeable, most ciswomen walk with a subtle hip swing. Practice by walking around your home and exaggerating the swing, then tone it down when you hit the street.
Slow it down. If you observe ciswomen in a shop or casual setting, or searching for a shiny Charizard, that was stolen from them at school (not bitter), you will notice that they tend to browse and meander. It’s not uncommon for a ciswoman to walk like she’s on a mission, but mimicking these browsing habits can make you appear more feminine.
Swing your arms gently and point your elbows in toward your torso. A light swing comes off as feminine, and turning the elbows results in creating a smaller silhouette.
Relax your muscles and allow your body to move more fluidly. If you’re wearing a wig, ensure it is secured so you can move your head freely. Rigid posture will make you appear more manly than feminine. Don’t relax too much though, or you’ll be sitting down, and this helps no one.
I know you didn’t ask but here’s a bonus:
Tips on walking in heels, a lot struggle, even ciswomen, and Princess Leia..
POSTURE: Heels pitch weight forward, so for balance, keep your head up and shoulders back. Tightening your core will offset some of the pressure on your feet.
STEPS: Striding in a normal heel-to-toe motion can snap a stiletto or twist an ankle. Instead take short steps, going down evenly on the ball of the foot and heel. But remember heel-to-toe is the best way if you’re walking in sturdy heels.WEIGHT: As your weight shifts fully onto a foot, spread your toes in the shoe slightly; this will help to distribute the weight onto the ball of the foot. HIPS: When you’re feeling off-balance, you tend to stiffen up. For an easy, attractive momentum, let your hips swing in small, sideways, figure-eight motions.
These should help you appear more Kate Moss, and less Bambi on ice.
Much love
Followers, feel free to add on!
Would going on estrogen effect broad shoulders? I have really broad, fairly masculine shoulders and they make me really dysphoric.
Chrissi says:Unfortunately not my sweetpea…
Oestrogen does not alter your skeletal structure, unless taken pre puberty, and even then, if you have broad shoulders then it wont help you. I’m sorry lovely, there's a lot oestrogen can do, but it can’t do that… :(However, if they make you dysphoric, there are some things you can do to help with that.Here’s a Chrissi special top tips list peeps! ;
Think peplum, it cinches your waist but the flaring on the bottom balances out your shoulders. Also, omgosh pretty.
If you have a beautiful top with detail on the shoulder, pair it with a flowy skirt that balances out your shoulders and lower body.
Skater skirts flare out to balance your lower body with your upper body, so even with a detailed top, proportions are balanced.
Wearing lower cut tops keeps the attention away from your shoulders, leading the eye down instead of from left to right.
Shopping for the perfect blazer or jacket? Try finding one without structure or padding, or remove the pads for a sleeker look. If your favourite blazer or jacket is padded but awesome, pair with a flowy skirt or patterned pants to balance your lower half out.
Like v-neck tees, long necklaces bring the eye naturally downward.
This doesn’t have to mean sticking to black on top and white on bottom, as long as the top is darker than the bottoms, your figure will appear more balanced.
The more material between the neck and shoulder, the smaller your shoulders will seem.
Strapless and off-the-shoulder tops lead the eye to the shoulders, sometimes making them seem even wider than they naturally are. Avoid the extra attention by pairing one of these tops with a bottom that adds volume, or go for a full-bodied dress. Because sexy sexy sexy.
The seam lines on your shirts and jackets are made to fall on the edge of your shoulder, so if they’re anywhere closer in toward your neck, it will make your shoulders appear further extended.
Horizontal sleeves will add weight to your shoulders, while a diagonally cut sleeve will soften the area.
Cropped jackets look boxy, which can make your upper body look wide and short, accentuating your shoulders.
A dolman top’s sleeve has a dropped seam and usually a wide top and narrow wrist opening. Due to the natural slouchiness of this garment and the dropped seam line, shoulders appear slouched downward, not outward.
The puffiness extends the shoulder line and adds bulk to the top, so balance the perfect puffy-sleeved top with a patterned pair of bottoms or perhaps a skirt of a lighter colour than the top.
The extra material in a kimono sleeve flares out past your shoulders to minimize them.
Empire lines cinch under the bust line, thus drawing attention to the smaller part of your torso rather than your shoulders. Dresses that are full and flared will give additional volume to your lower half, drawing the eye downward.
For shirts and jackets: go collarless whenever possible to minimize attention to that area.For blazers: a narrow lapel will bring the attention down and in, whereas a wide lapel brings attention outward.
Embellished skirts or patterned pants paired with a plain top will bring the attention down low instead of up top. Ruffles, pleats, beading, lace, and patterns all fit the bill on this one.
While glorious for boots weather, skinny jeans taper your lower body, making your top half look more voluminous. Pair with a v-neck tee or a top like the one above that draws attention downward and you’ll be good.
Own it. Work it. Love it.
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17 Easy Makeup Tips
Makeup Essentials Checklist
Makeup For Dark Skin: Ultimate Step-By-Step Beginners Guide
15 Super Easy Makeup Tutorials For Black Girls
How to Apply Makeup for Dark Skin
Useful Makeup Tips For Trans Women
Feminizing Make-up for Trans Women
There are a lot of makeup tutorials and beauty vloggers and youtubers on the internet!
Hiding facial hair:
Hide Facial Hair (with Makeup!) Part 1: Shaving
Hide Facial Hair (using Makeup!) Part 2: Makeup
a way to hide stubble for facial hair
4 Must-Have Items for Concealing a Beard Shadow
How To Cover Up Facial Hair
Hiding facial hair
Tips on hiding facial hair
How To Cover 5 O'clock Shadow
Disability and makeup:
Makeup brushes with bendable handles for disabled ppl
Makeup with sensory issues (helpful things in the notes too)
Makeup tips for someone with sensory issues
7 Beauty Instagrammers With Disabilities
How do blind people put on their make-up?
Applying eyeliner with shaky hands
Chronic Illness Makeup
Makeup Tips for Physical Disabled Women
Working around disability when applying makeup
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10 makeup brands for people of color
32 Amazing Beauty Products People Of Color Should Try Right Now
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12 Great Makeup Brands for Women of Color
32 Black-Owned Makeup Brands
16 Black Owned Beauty Brands
15 Must-Try Black-Owned Cosmetics Brands
The Best Makeup Brands for Dark Skin Tones
7 Black-Owned Cosmetic Brands
How to Choose the Right Makeup for Dark Skin Tones
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Cheap makeup masterpost
Makeup list for under $50 total
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The Best Makeup You Can Buy at the Drugstore
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July 29, 2019
If you’re new to Tumblr, or just haven’t sorted this out yet, YES, you can block those hateful anons.
Let’s say this here was a hateful anon. (which it isn’t) All you have to do to block them, is to sign on from a laptop or PC, (you can’t do it from your app) and click the three little dots there on the bottom right of the message.
Hit “BLOCK”. You don’t get to know who they are, but you do block their IP address, so you don’t have to worry about hate coming from that same avenue again.
(Please reblog this post, and practice restraint with those hateful anons. Do not respond and lend them your stage. Rather, sign on to a laptop or PC, block that hater, and delete that hate.)
https://www.shopmissa.com/
they sell like a bunch of makeup for $1. there are also makeup tools. other items are more than $1, but still
here’s info about their shipping & handling policies & pricing: https://www.shopmissa.com/pages/shipping-handling
man this movie didn’t have to go there like that but they did anyway.
Has shoes up to size 15
Published on Apr 16, 2014
basically a smokey eye is a lot of dark eyeshadow which is why things are infamous for going wrong. it’s practically like a social media challenge.
for precision & locations, watch the video. a basic table of contents is: start with the lighter shades & get progressively darker. then do the waterline with eyeliner & the corner & the top waterline too. wear big eyelashes & do your eyebrows.
Easy Makeup Tips That Literally Anyone Can Follow
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Brit + Co connects you with innovative ideas, apps, and products that add creativity and simplicity to your everyday life.02/08/2016 05:15pm EST | Updated December 7, 2017
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Don’t get us wrong: We love a show-stopping makeup look as much as the next girl. But makeup basics are important. They’re what help you with your base makeup routine that gets you ready in just five minutes flat every. single. day. and the hacks that can take you from office to date in just a few simple steps. We spend a lot of time breaking beauty down to the essentials, but here, we’re going even further into 101 territory: we’re talking a what’s what of your makeup kit. Whether you’ve glossed over the nitty gritty of each product or are just learning how to build a routine that fits your personality or schedule, consider this your guide to keeping makeup simple and approachable. This foundation of knowledge can also be your stepping stone into the more advanced, creative ways to use makeup. Here’s everything you need to know about makeup basics and how to use them.
Foundation: Beyond your skincare routine, foundation is what makes your skin appear flawless; it evens out your skin tone and conceals any subtle blemishes or discolorations on your face. The most important aspect of foundation to consider is coverage. Generally speaking, there are two ways to go. If you want lighter coverage then opt for a tinted moisturizer, a slightly colored cream that you can swipe on with your fingers to give your skin a wash of color. This is the lazy girl’s M.O. If you’re interested in more coverage then liquid foundation – the classic form of foundation – is your best bet. This foundation is best applied with either your fingers, a flat synthetic foundation brush or a sponge blender.
Take it to the next level with concealer: When you really want to be sleuthy, add concealer to your routine. It’s your go-to for things like covering blemishes and more apparent skin discolorations, and can also be used to brighten and even out your under eye area. Concealer comes in different mediums like creams, sticks and liquids. Similarly to foundation, you’ll pick your product based on the level of coverage you need for your skin type.
Bronzer: Imagine bronzer as sunshine in powder form. When you apply foundation to your skin you even out your skin tone, but you’re also getting rid of the natural shadows and highlights on your face. Think of the bronzer as your way to use shadow to create depth or to give the illusion of moving a part of your face back. This is the first step to adding warmth and dimension back into your face. The “right” bronzer for your skin tone should look like a naturally tan version of you, not too orange and not too dark.
For extra illumination use highlighter: Highlighter is essentially the opposite of your bronzer. Rather than making a part of your face look smaller, you will use the brightness of a highlighter to bring out areas of your face (When you see images of a gal who has that glowing dewy-looking skin, there is a very good chance that she is wearing highlighter. Secrets revealed!). You can get highlighters that are golden, pearlescent and opalescent. There are also other variations, such as matte highlighter, which gives you the brightness without the shimmer. Finding a highlighter that works well on your skin tone and for your personality is pretty simple.
Blush: When you’re not wearing any makeup, you’ll be able to see a natural flush of color on your cheeks. But again, after applying a little foundation, you’re covering that up in attempt to get a more even base to work with. Enter blush, the product that adds life to your features (um yeah, you can wear blush on more parts of your face than just your cheeks). Because blush comes in so many hues, you can take it literally and match your natural flush or use a more playful hue to make your look more vibrant. Typically, beginners will wear powder blush because it’s usually easier to apply for a more natural finish.
Pump it up with cream blush: Cream blush is a really fun way to take wearing blush to another level – it’s more pigmented, and therefore a bolder way to wear blush. To take it even further, you can apply a cream blush as your base and set it in place with a powder blush for an even brighter punch of color that will last all day.
Eyeshadow: When it’s used on its own as a single shade, eyeshadow is purely cosmetic. As a minimalist or beginner, you can apply a sweep of a single shadow across your eyelid for a subtle pop of color.
Get your blend on with a smokey eye: For a more advanced gal who wants to take eyeshadow to the next level there’s the smokey eye. The concept here is to create dimension using a base shade, highlight shade and contour shade just like you would do on your face, but focusing on your eyelids only. You can use endless color combinations as long as you keep the basic approach the same. To build a dramatic look, use a neutral color on your eyelids, a deeper medium hue in your creases and a brighter shadow on your brow bones and the inside corners of your eyes.
Eyeliner: Eyeliner is all about enhancing the shape and color of your eyes. There are several techniques you can use, but beginners should keep application simple by using a pencil along their lower lash line to create definition and along the upper lash line to make eyelashes look fuller. Simple as that.
For further definition use a brow pencil: The idea of filling in your eyebrows can be a little intimidating for the gal who has never gone there, but once you’re ready to accentuate your eyes further, this is the way to go. Eyebrow enhancement can actually change the entire look of your face – this is why we’re considering it a more advanced makeup route. You can try powders, creams and other variations of mediums, but the easiest way to fill in and shape your eyebrows tends to be an eyebrow pencil that you can get in a hue to complement the natural color of your eyebrows.
Mascara: This was actually my gateway to makeup; I wore mascara before anything else. Mascara is a great way to give your entire face a little extra pop without having to learn all the other techniques. I recommend that you pick a mascara that’s not waterproof to start because it will be much easier to take off later. The formulas are typically designed to enhance length or volume and the biggest actual difference is usually the shape of the brush. Try to find a mascara that has a smaller application brush so you can have more control when putting it on.
Turn up the volume with an eyelash curler: This device looks scary as heck (I always make sure to be gentle with this little contraption), but it’s totally clutch when it comes to getting va-va-voom lashes. It’s a must for certain looks, but you have to make sure you use it correctly or else you can – eek! – break or rip out your eyelashes. Be sure to watch a tutorial that offers tips and tricks as to how to use it properlly before you get on this train!
Lip Color: We’re not just talking color – the choices are endless – but we’re also talking types of lip color. There’s lip balm, gloss, tints, creme sticks and stains. The main difference you should be aware of is that each one carries a different level of pigment, aka the amount of color that will show up on your pout; this can vary from brand to brand. The easiest intro to lip color is to start off with the less pigmented options and work your way up to the bolder hues that take more effort to apply and maintain.
For an even more perfect pucker use lip liner: While lip liner is a next-level product, it’s one that I highly recommend using whenever you choose to wear any type of lipstick or darker pigmented lip color. Lip liners essentially create a barrier to keep the lipstick on your lips and prevent the color from bleeding or feathering onto the perimeter of your mouth. In other words, it’s the secret to totally kissable lips.
For more beauty + DIY tutorials, check out brit.co!
DIY Guide to Dress Necklines from Paper Blog here. For other popular guides go here:
The Ultimate Bag Fashion Vocabulary.
Know Your Dress Vocabulary.
Fashion Pattern Vocabulary Part 1 Infographic.
Fashion Pattern Vocabulary Part 2 Infographic.
Know Your Sunglasses Infographic.
Know Your Shoes Part 1 Infographic. Lobster Claws anyone?
Know Your Shoes Part 2 Infographic.
Guide to Necklace Types and Lengths from Design Thrift.
Necklaces for Different Necklines Created by Imogen Lamport from Inside Out Style.
The Shoes Appreciation Society Infographic from Etsy by Niege Borges here.