dazedcaramia

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Martin's domain being a mix of the lonely AND the eye is sooo fucking sexy I think we should talk about that more

[id: screenshots of tiktok captions. the images say, “but the only reason we still love princess diana is because she did not have the time to disappoint us.”]

begging queer kids to read up on princess diana’s involvement with the community. yes, she was a rich, pretty monarch. yes, she died young.

but the reason why queer people love her is because she used her privilege during the aids crisis to advocate for sick queer men, when very few others would - much less someone of her status.

diana spent years advocating for the health and care of queer people with hiv/aids. in 1987, at the height of the epidemic, she opened the first specialist clinic dedicated to treating aids patients (the first clinic of it’s kind in the uk).

she also fought public hysteria by hugging and shaking bare hands with aids patients, at a time when aids was thought to be spread by skin to skin contact. not only that, she visited patients in the clinic regularly and even comforted them through their sickness.

and when queen elizabeth told her to try focusing on “something more pleasant”?

diana ignored her and kept fighting.

and this is only her work towards the aids crisis. she publicly called out the royal family, brought attention to numerous world issues, and was known as an advocate for empathy and kindness. she’s known and loved as the people’s princess for good reason

yeah i think this is stupid enough for tumblr to see

i love you closeted queer people, i love you queer people who are afraid to "look queer", i love you queer people who hate getting told things like "you ping my gaydar" because that's scary, i love you queer people who are terrified of being outed, i love you queer people who don't fit the narrow tiktok/tumblr idea of what queer looks like (ESPECIALLY if you're disabled and/or a poc and that's part of why you don't), i love you queer people who rely on queerphobic family to survive, i love you queer people who find it hard to joke about their sexuality/gender, i love you queer people with a complicated relationship to being queer

"Abolish gender!"

NO.

liberate gender

Free gender from the confines of the patriarchy and give it to everyone in whatever ways they want it.

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MD Awareness Poll, EVERYONE

We’d like to take a moment to ask ALL MDers, on every platform, to take this brief poll.  Awareness efforts have been scattered, with everyone doing their own thing. We’d like the community, as a whole, to decide when is the best time for a Maladaptive Daydreaming Awareness ‘observance’ of some kind. Every single vote matters.

If you are bi-lingual:  Below there are links to this survey in various languages.  Please, take them, carry them to any community or Maladaptive Daydreamer you know of in these languages.

Here is the survey in:

English https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1GrMXHNKiVb-1AAgGbPWGG6YPYkh7qfFlSSWTah89OkI/edit

French/français https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1PNVBhKXDfYrNXTbHakaUfCgzSPtOPIOEiHAWoaQy6uo/edit

Portuguese/português https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1_ZRvULBwlaZMywlJS72N09s_cEp4E1w0n0m9PcdXddU/edit

Turkish/Türk https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1Koqup44B_i_vfbbdY5gO6-BDPPEYPxBKuxEl1tt8IIE/edit

Italian/Italiana https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1thm4YsKglvHon_jCG39k2AE3FZPXM4WyaAp9Q4oCYnk/edit

Hindi/हिंदी https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1PLRaQ2Tygz0yH5zI4NxKd3h_5znaMgyE81m6bDCEEWs/edit

Afrikaans/Afrikaans https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1hqxktqxWT5t0pdrmFrEgNxpadvyhOdA5dHUO_f-ktOA/edit

Spanish/español https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1k-9f8laIF0fGI-RMpRLZu4FXa-HgJO1aXH98XtdHc4Q/edit

Real hot girl shit

Bathory

Dave Mustaine, pose backstage at the Joe Louis Arena during “Waking Up Dead Tour” on February 13, 1987.

fr I literally put myself in shitty situations all of sudden on my daydreams and then I be like "NOT HERE LORD WHY"

How do I manage to embarrass myself even in my own mind

MARTIN: Are you sure about this?

JON: No. But I love you.

MARTIN: I love you too.

[The absolute grossest kiss sound Alexander J Newall can make. It’s 90% growling.]

David Ellefson and Dave Mustaine

Megadeth

Also that clown from The Circus of The Other, Joseph Grimaldi, was an actual real famous clown

Ok was anyone ever going to tell me that Robert Smirke was an actual real life person or was I just supposed to discover that for myself

What am I supposed to do with this information?!

Just created a para based on one random guy I saw on a youtube video and he literally has two expressions cause he appears briefly in that mf interview, now I'm desperate for knowing any social media of him so my daydream can be fluid as toxic as it is

[gertrude robinson voice]

SHIT 💥💥

(X)

Art By Toshihiro Egawa

sad mood :'(

the moment when you daydream something rly sad to the point of tears so you want to daydream something happy bc you don't like feeling sad but you cant think of a happy daydream bc your brain is in sad mode.

Slipknot - Vermilion

Beautiful in every angle

Gay copules throughout history

Works by Anton Semenov (Gloom82)

This artist on Instagram

the wretched abomination known as the minotaur has discovered some chalk

Not a bad day.

Did you hear that? A fear submitted by Helen to Deep Dark Fears - thanks!

Looking for a gift for that odd friend of yours? You can pick up signed copies of my Deep Dark Fears books in my Etsy Store! CLICK HERE FOR MORE INFO!

Los Angeles Record, California, December 28, 1931

Danse Macabre Series (n.d. / pencil on paper) - Paul Rumsey

-fae