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If a Bimbo is pure physical perfection meant to be admired by others, than you should share that with the world. Talk to your Bimbo wife about it, make sure she's fine with it and wants it. If she genuinely lives to be a sex doll, if being objectified is her pleasure, and cat calls and lustful glances make her happy, see what else she can explore. Letting woman and men grope her, giving blowjobs while being complemented. Praise her sexual skills and her using them to bring herself happiness and make others feel good. She has those giant boobs, that pretty face. Share that with other men and woman, ask her how she wants them to grope her or fuck her. If we going extremely into the bimbo fetish to the point of a lifestyle, how far does her kink go? Does she want to be gangbanged till she's bred and pregnant? Have her clothes taken off her by her partner and exposed in front of strangers? If she doesn't and you have communicated with her about this and she just wants to fuck you, stick to that. If she does want to be physically appreciated explore the full lengths of what being a bimbo slut addicted to sex would mean. Be proud of your Bimbo if she wants to be a whore, and be proud of her if she doesn't.

There is no greater fun than modding up your wife. It takes knowledge, imagination, and dedication. It is all about fine tuning, highlighting, and broadcasting her voluptuousness. Your goal is simple. You want everyone to want her. You want everyone to dream about her whether they want it or not. It is all about details and obviousness, blunt perfection to maximize grip but also supreme minimalizations such as for example her eyebrows or skirt lengths. The interplay between exhaustion and reduction is the goal, the overall intensification of contradiction such as a tight waist in comparison to her bulging huge breasts, her almost hairless face with big kissing lips framed by her wavy, golden mane of auspicious smoothness and softness. All of this will lead to a staggering, breathtaking, mind-shaking appearance everyone will envy you for. Everyone will want her, and she will feel the glances, the appreciations, the greed around her while shining and striding, residing in the center of everyone’s attention. And in the night, the show must go on, and she will thank you with bringing upon you ultimate physical sensual limitless satisfaction.

Let's give this man a few points. It is a problem that if there are woman who want to live the Bimbo lifestyle in real life and that is what makes them happy and they have found a partner that works with their needs and desires, that they are attacked by feminists. But guys and gals, woman couldn't vote. There's a ancient greek myth about a son could murder his mother and it was fine because they weren't related due to some warped ancient greco roman logic. As for being polite to woman. Just do that for everybody? If someone doesn't want help, respect their wishes and don't help them. If your lover wants you to act like a gentleman as part of your lifestyle? Do that. As for the trans baiting? Go look up a Contra Points video on gender. There's so much here people that is bad. This is why you don't let kink and real life clash and fuse without understanding what is real and what is your THING. Why aren't their a lot of woman engineers? A complex history of a male dominated profession and roadblocks set in the way of woman wanting those jobs. Go read history, I recommend a woman's history course or a good text on woman's history to get a grasp on how deeply woman have effected our culture and society just in America. You'd be surprised at how much shit they are involved in.

Debunking misogyny

Misogyny comes from Greek - misos (hatred) + gunē (woman). The “hatred of women” is the original, core meaning. The meaning that is still given as a short explanation of the word. The timeline of the use of “misogyny” shows a tremendous peak in the last two-three decades, “coincidentally” matching the emerge of the third-wave feminism.

Currently, if you google the term, the definition you’re given is much broader. It’s “dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women” or “hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women, or prejudice against women”.

Apparently hatred was a bit too much of a strong word to throw around easily, therefore “contempt” and “prejudice” were added to help popularize the term. Funnily enough, though, the short explanation of misogyny remains “hatred of women”.

Let’s ponder “contempt” and “prejudice” for a moment - these are very, very broad terms. Basically, if you make any assumption whatsoever, it can be quite effectively called a prejudice. Things as natural as assuming a woman has a vagina are already being labelled as prejudice by transgender communities. And if that’s not a safe assumption about women, then I don’t think anything is. Same with contempt. We’ve arrived in a world where being a gentleman and offering to help carry a woman’s shopping bag can be branded contempt for said woman’s independency, strength of her body, will and character and often a presumable rape attempt. As you can see, we have enough problems with these terms as standalone expressions, but now they have been thrown into one big bag labelled “misogyny”, which means that by wanting to help a lady cross a street you can be, technically, a “hater of women”.

It gets better though! Wikipedia goes even further, by saying that “Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification”. With this definition, any action that could correlate with any of the listed “offenses” automatically translates into misogyny, with its core and most common meaning still being “hatred of women”. You’re a member of a male football team? Social exclusion, you hate women! You’re defending your family from an armed female assailant? Hostility, you hate women! You happen to be the breadwinner of your family when your wife happily takes care of the kids? Patriarchy, you hate women! You have eyes and understand math and can’t pretend a vast majority of engineers aren’t men? You’re belittling women, and therefore hating them!

And the funny thing is, with misogyny being a word that seems to be almost exclusively aimed against men, we somehow tend to forget that the social group holding the most contempt towards women is… women themselves! Feminists judging bimbos. Bimbos feeling sorry for feminist’s small tits. Successful women belittling housewives and mothers hating women who don’t have their kids puke all over their dresses. I have never met a woman who has never shown any sign of contempt towards other women. Which, by the current definitions, makes all women misogynists!

With a definition this broad, the word loses any practical meaning. It becomes an empty slogan. One that can be used anywhere by anyone and against anyone with a high percentage chance of sticking, but… So what? The word still makes no sense in its current meaning, so we might as well just forget about it.

And really… What do we need the word for? If someone is hostile, just call him or her hostile. If someone represents male privilege, whatever that little monster of a term is, then just call her or him out on that, go ahead (and try to define it while you’re at it)! Don’t elevate it to some made up blanket term that is supposed to brand everyone in this planet as a “woman hater”.

And if that isn’t enough for you to stop using the word, then by calling anyone or any action misogynistic, you are assuming that the woman (including you, if you happen to be the target) said action or individual is opressing cannot defend herself, you are belittling her. And as we already know, belittling women is misogynistic. And that’s what’s so amusing about the current definitions. Every time you use the word misogynist or misogynistic, you are being a misogynist yourself. 

Tired of the word already? Yeah, me too. Let it rest in peace.

(originally posted in June 2017)

This purity of love is why I adore the Bimbofication Kink. Out of the many fetishes there are, Bimbofication idealizes a forgiving romantic bond between the owner an the Bimbo. I'd add that you should care about what your partner does. Do you want a lazy Bimbo? Do you like one that reads? Fantasy is fun, but with reality you should have a partner who's past times match with yours. Sex is glorious, except it won't make a relationship. Bimbofication is enough for the lust, but the love? The love in a bond between two people together takes a greater depth.

Dear Bimbo ... your man does not care whether you are lazy or not. He doesn't care whether you read or lay around, whether you do stuff or simply dream of him coming home. He doesn't care about how you spend your time, what you attempt, try to figure out. He just wants to consume, taste, feel you, hear your moan when he comes home. It is simple and beautiful, so you are allowed to be it, too.

This stupidity should be exalted part of the Bimbo Kink, I got troubles with it. As a performance? Training your partner to act as a stupid, cock addicted, semen hungry Bimbo who says yes to every request and denies all restraint on her lusts is hot. It's mega hot. A woman who doesn't think, only feel and act based on the carnal impulses you inflame.

That being said, it's dehumanizing too. Reducing a person's personality to just their tits and face and ass, removing their ability for complex thought, destroying their capacity for reason. Keep in mind the edge between fetish fantasy and damaging reality.

This is actually true and is why writers tend to be emotional wrecks.

writing is fun because instead of peacefully enjoying daydreams i can stare at a blank document and cry about it <3

Her lips sealed around his cock, her throat struggling, her eyes desperate. She looks up at him, not wanting this, but you pushed her to it. You told her how good it would make her feel, of how much it would prove her love by being the slut you want. Her face shifts, going from shame like pain to pleasure. She starts to suck on it, throating his dick with new eagerness. He jabs his dick in and out of her mouth like a dagger, thrusting and pulling, only to stab back in. When he creams on her tongue, he holds it until her cheeks are full and than slowly pulls out. Sperm connects to her lips, she licks at it as she swirls around his load. In her mouth she tastes his seed, forced to drown her tongue in it. She pulls her head back, sallowes down everything like a good girl. It's not to him she turns now. It's to you. Her face blushing, her finger tracing her lips, her nipples hard like iron spears as they pierce the fabric of her bra. She looks at you for approval, and you smile and kiss her neck. You give her to others, you let her be used, but you never let go of her. She's yours, and that's what makes ruining her good. Serious Talk: I honestly find it better to have the partner in any relationship be they straight or gay or lesiban or of a trans sexuality to look for their partner's approval in having sex with others and having it viewed by them. I know people like the cuckhold thing, but don't feel pressured into that. If you are not into the humiliation aspect of being a cuck, don't embrace what isn't you. Share approval and acceptance with your partner, and again people. Do not force your lover to fuck other people if that is not okay with them. Sexy roleplay talk of being emotionally manipulative and real life controlling them should not be the same.

@stagandvixenworld

Good fantasy art can be made of couple key factors. I can't list all of them as they change by the artist. Here I will try to name a view. Make note of the use of scale, the size of the buildings vs the comparative size of the person at the bottom corner of the painting, and this sense of scales feeds into perspective. You see the person looking up, and you look up, and you feel their sense of the scale as they behold the towering architecture before them. Note also the simple set of colors for contrast. A dark blue sky, cold grey and white for buildings stone and the shaded snow. The warm but threatening blush of orange and red for the windows and lanterns. The small application of fire as a element in the piece makes the dark coldness of everything else stand out more

Village Alley by Maxime Desmettre

Do you see her whisper her fears? She looks at you, scared of the changes she wants but doesn't wish to feel. She feels her value is in her tits and as they grow larger and rounder and better, so does her value increase. She worries about how much she's been thinking about her lips, about the feel of cock entering her mouth, or pussy caressing her tongue. She's started looking at her clothes with dismay because you whisper sweet poison in her ears about how they aren't the most beautiful. You show her pictures of ideal woman, woman who sacrificed decency and control to lust, and been rewarded for it with love and desire by men and woman who want their bodies. You tell her she doesn't need a job as you pat her cheek and hold her chin, looking at her eyes with a commanding and ruthless look, your grip hardening as your fingers dig into her skin. You explain to her you have the trainer ready so her body is prepared for the new breasts. You tell her she will love them, and if she doesn't? You smirk and slap the weak and soft and pathetic rack she now has, she will learn to love it because she will be forced to walk around with them and you will show her how the only love she needs is the love of rapacious gazes tearing her apart, objectifying her figure into segments for their minds to play with in the dark corners of their thoughts.

Her protest, her squirming words, trap them and lead them down the path you want her to go. She'll thank you later. Serious discussion: Being supportive of your partner is imperative. If they have fears about body modification, talk to them about it. How important is this to their ideal self image? Will the fetish help their body positivity, and how fast do they want to go? Don't push what makes them uncomfortable. If Bimbofication is important to you in a relationship, be considerate of others feelings on having their self played with like a crafted toy. Do not force via physical or emotional manipulation body images on your partner or make them commit to surgery. Fetish is shared, or it is not acceptable.

Kink shaming is always beneath people. No one should attack this person for their fantasies and i intend no insult to them. I would like to have a talk about these race and cuckhold fetishes with respectful intent. They are all weird. Like, really weird. Everything of them. WBC, BBC, the asian varient, they essentialize people into either submissive sex addicts who would betray their loved ones, or make the people who are the alpha race in whatever version of the kink the ones tearing apart romantic connections. It's arousing to imagine being the asshole who takes away someone's girlfriend or boyfriend based on a fundamental attribute like your race, but it's also a little toxic guys and gals. Then there is the cuck shit. How many of you have seen a Harem smut story where the guy fucks multiple girls but that doesn't cuck the other woman or main girl? Yet, if a girl fucks another guy, she has to shame her primary lover. He is called beta, but what kind of person would take a look at a girl being an asshole to her boyfriend and or husband and go yeah, I want to fuck that and make their partner feel like shit? This has bugged me about all the cuckhold stories. Why don't people just want to see their wife or girlfriend fucked because it's like a private porno film between the lovers? Its about her pleasure, her sexual joy, and sharing that moment together. If you got a boyfriend or husband who is okay with you fucking other guys, why is it always the girl has to be an asshole to him? I get it, people like being shamed as kink, it's not something I get and so for those who have fun with it, keep on doing what makes you happy.

But the sheer freaking quantity of this content seeping from between the interwebs is bloody strange. If you want to masturbate to your lover getting pounded and spray all over her, do so without feeling like that makes you a Beta male. If you want to fuck her after she's been fucked, do that. If you want to fuck her alongside other random dudes she's grabbed? Do that. Personally. I'd rather my partner complement me while having sex and they praise me. But hey, I'm a internet virgin. So no RL exp there.

Pm if you want to be owned and collar by me 24/7 as your mistress

This is important. Do not trash yourself too hard. Be clear on your flaws, but know what those flaws exactly are and don't say you are vaguely bad. That doesn't help. Remember why you write. What you enjoy about writing, and keep it in mind.

Things to say about your writing instead of “this is so bad”

My writing doesn’t have to be perfect all the time

The dialogue in this scene feels stale (or another adjective), but I can revise that later

The descriptions lack specificity (or another issue), but I can revise that later

The [another specific craft element] isn’t working the way I’d hoped, but I can revise that later

I don’t feel like I can objectively judge my work at this current moment

I’m not happy with my writing right now, but that doesn’t mean I’ll feel this way forever

I’ll reread this writing at a later time and move on for now

This scene isn’t turning out how I’d pictured in my head, but I can accept that for now and tweak it later

I trust myself to edit this in the future

I’m afraid people are going to judge my work, but I’ll accept that I can’t control the reactions of other people—my reaction matters most

This scene/subplot/character/etc is overwhelming me.

I’ll take my time through this scene/chapter/subplot as more time may allow me to immerse more in the draft.

I’ll write this scene/chapter/subplot as quickly as I can—I would like to get through this part ASAP.

It’s okay to make mistakes in my writing.

I’m not feeling very confident in my craft right now, but I know this will pass

This scene might be bad, and that’s okay. Sometimes I write gems, and sometimes my writing needs a bit more work (that’s normal)

This scene relies on [certain skill] that I’m still honing. I understand to get better at something, I have to practice and practicing requires mistakes.

I’m not excited about this scene right now

I had high expectations for this scene, and unfortunately, I don’t feel like I’m hitting them. However, it’s okay for expectations to change.

I’m disappointed with how my writing is turning out. That’s normal, even though it sucks.

I’m going to remind myself what I DO like about my writing because this feels bad, though I know this feeling won’t last forever.

Sometimes writers need to say “my writing is so bad,” and that’s fine too! Sometimes though, it’s good to note what is specifically wrong in case you need an extra boost forward! <3