On What Sort Of DM's I'll Do

This is important. Do not trash yourself too hard. Be clear on your flaws, but know what those flaws exactly are and don't say you are vaguely bad. That doesn't help. Remember why you write. What you enjoy about writing, and keep it in mind.

Things to say about your writing instead of “this is so bad”

My writing doesn’t have to be perfect all the time

The dialogue in this scene feels stale (or another adjective), but I can revise that later

The descriptions lack specificity (or another issue), but I can revise that later

The [another specific craft element] isn’t working the way I’d hoped, but I can revise that later

I don’t feel like I can objectively judge my work at this current moment

I’m not happy with my writing right now, but that doesn’t mean I’ll feel this way forever

I’ll reread this writing at a later time and move on for now

This scene isn’t turning out how I’d pictured in my head, but I can accept that for now and tweak it later

I trust myself to edit this in the future

I’m afraid people are going to judge my work, but I’ll accept that I can’t control the reactions of other people—my reaction matters most

This scene/subplot/character/etc is overwhelming me.

I’ll take my time through this scene/chapter/subplot as more time may allow me to immerse more in the draft.

I’ll write this scene/chapter/subplot as quickly as I can—I would like to get through this part ASAP.

It’s okay to make mistakes in my writing.

I’m not feeling very confident in my craft right now, but I know this will pass

This scene might be bad, and that’s okay. Sometimes I write gems, and sometimes my writing needs a bit more work (that’s normal)

This scene relies on [certain skill] that I’m still honing. I understand to get better at something, I have to practice and practicing requires mistakes.

I’m not excited about this scene right now

I had high expectations for this scene, and unfortunately, I don’t feel like I’m hitting them. However, it’s okay for expectations to change.

I’m disappointed with how my writing is turning out. That’s normal, even though it sucks.

I’m going to remind myself what I DO like about my writing because this feels bad, though I know this feeling won’t last forever.

Sometimes writers need to say “my writing is so bad,” and that’s fine too! Sometimes though, it’s good to note what is specifically wrong in case you need an extra boost forward! <3

I love Bimbo Whisperer's immersive dialogues underneath every picture they post. It's more arousing to get into the psychology of the fetish and embrace the lewd logic. That being said, I have a big issue with the pokemon talk used here to describe Bimbos. Treating them as only physical characteristics collected together to form different breeds of sex slave animal. It's very weird and while I get the fantasy of the bimbo as a live in lust pet, it verges on this is too dehumanizing. Fucking written hot as fuck tho. To be clear, the writing is sexy, the subtext is what gets me eh.

Claudia Rivier/ Croatia

At first she argued with you about how she had a career, ambitions outside of her body and moans. You showed her you make more money than she could want. Built a palace out of silk and pillows and blankets, garbed her in lingerie and shackled them in dainty beautiful things. Slowly you touched her more and more, casually stroking your hands over her side and thigh and breasts, feeling her nipples and skin stiffen and respond to your touch. When she asks what she can do for you, with her breasts hanging out, more perfect every day as you mould them, you cup one in your hand and bite it and tell her she can be pliant and accepting of her purpose. She asks what the purpose is, and you pet near her legs and command her to open them, and with your fingers you spread the gates of her womanhood wide and you set your fingers crawling inside her and say this is her purpose. She protests with a whimper, says she is smart and ambitious, and you tell her she is a woman. And she is a breeder and a sexual work and she only needs to focus on the signs of her fertility and beauty, and her protests dwindle as you explore her, and explain to her what she will be. Serious Talk: It's okay to have one partner be the wage earner, but don't force your girlfriend or wife out of a job.

No fetish talk this time. Spend time with your Bimbo or your lover or whatever you got. Plan out a movie night, talk about books you've read together, be romantic in the way that fits you. Sex marathons? Not the greatest idea on the planet. Sure, if you want to stay in bed all days pounding and foreplaying and ravishing, try it. But, your going to get tired, and you and your Bimbo are going to be sore. Your Bimbo even if they want to be a Bimbo is not a dog. They are not a sex creature. Their a person with interests and likes, work on pleasing those.

This a fun idea. A agreed upon performance between the owner and Bimbo role. For every piece of clothing brought, an act of service. For every boob job and lip enhancement, a sexy pose or a slutty gesture. With every time you spend money on her Bimbo, she must be more of a whore to the desires of her owner, forgoing decency for depravity. That is if this is all a prior agreed upon settlement between ya and your very sure that it is all a theatrical performance to add kinky spice to your life. Asking your partner do sexual favors for things you buy? Fucked up. Don't do that And as for the don't work aspect, hope you have loads of money to provide for this lavish life style and keep you and your Bimbo partner living in a home.

Ah, sexual fantasy. The thumping, arousing, primal fire of desire which courses like violence through our veins. All you guys and lesibans out there want girls to be this free with their body don't ya? Wearing skimpy outfits to parties, dancing without a care in the world, shaking that ass and swinging those tits that you want to bite and grab. You know how you will get this? Confidence. Your girl needs to be confidant in her body, in her place by you, and in your respect for her. All these different smut stories and blogs about training the girls, really you need to train yourself. Complement, support, and reinforce committed respect. You want that woman to be a fucking horny slut bitch who's willing to show herself off like a trophy? Than prove tha your worth it, that you will listen, and that this is good shared fun. What does she want from you socially and emotionally for this kind of lewd behavior? Desire is a road going both ways. You need to see what steps you'll take before you have someone else walk.

Proper dress code for a Halloween party.

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Love to see the cool artistic design. The use of dark blues, purples, and tan brown complement each other. Don't use too many color tones, find a few good ones that combine together and work them into different parts of the design to build contrast. You'll get a better art piece.

Thinking of calling him Bracken 🌿

Let's give this man a few points. It is a problem that if there are woman who want to live the Bimbo lifestyle in real life and that is what makes them happy and they have found a partner that works with their needs and desires, that they are attacked by feminists. But guys and gals, woman couldn't vote. There's a ancient greek myth about a son could murder his mother and it was fine because they weren't related due to some warped ancient greco roman logic. As for being polite to woman. Just do that for everybody? If someone doesn't want help, respect their wishes and don't help them. If your lover wants you to act like a gentleman as part of your lifestyle? Do that. As for the trans baiting? Go look up a Contra Points video on gender. There's so much here people that is bad. This is why you don't let kink and real life clash and fuse without understanding what is real and what is your THING. Why aren't their a lot of woman engineers? A complex history of a male dominated profession and roadblocks set in the way of woman wanting those jobs. Go read history, I recommend a woman's history course or a good text on woman's history to get a grasp on how deeply woman have effected our culture and society just in America. You'd be surprised at how much shit they are involved in.

Debunking misogyny

Misogyny comes from Greek - misos (hatred) + gunē (woman). The “hatred of women” is the original, core meaning. The meaning that is still given as a short explanation of the word. The timeline of the use of “misogyny” shows a tremendous peak in the last two-three decades, “coincidentally” matching the emerge of the third-wave feminism.

Currently, if you google the term, the definition you’re given is much broader. It’s “dislike of, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women” or “hatred, dislike, or mistrust of women, or prejudice against women”.

Apparently hatred was a bit too much of a strong word to throw around easily, therefore “contempt” and “prejudice” were added to help popularize the term. Funnily enough, though, the short explanation of misogyny remains “hatred of women”.

Let’s ponder “contempt” and “prejudice” for a moment - these are very, very broad terms. Basically, if you make any assumption whatsoever, it can be quite effectively called a prejudice. Things as natural as assuming a woman has a vagina are already being labelled as prejudice by transgender communities. And if that’s not a safe assumption about women, then I don’t think anything is. Same with contempt. We’ve arrived in a world where being a gentleman and offering to help carry a woman’s shopping bag can be branded contempt for said woman’s independency, strength of her body, will and character and often a presumable rape attempt. As you can see, we have enough problems with these terms as standalone expressions, but now they have been thrown into one big bag labelled “misogyny”, which means that by wanting to help a lady cross a street you can be, technically, a “hater of women”.

It gets better though! Wikipedia goes even further, by saying that “Misogyny can be manifested in numerous ways, including social exclusion, sex discrimination, hostility, androcentrism, patriarchy, male privilege, belittling of women, violence against women, and sexual objectification”. With this definition, any action that could correlate with any of the listed “offenses” automatically translates into misogyny, with its core and most common meaning still being “hatred of women”. You’re a member of a male football team? Social exclusion, you hate women! You’re defending your family from an armed female assailant? Hostility, you hate women! You happen to be the breadwinner of your family when your wife happily takes care of the kids? Patriarchy, you hate women! You have eyes and understand math and can’t pretend a vast majority of engineers aren’t men? You’re belittling women, and therefore hating them!

And the funny thing is, with misogyny being a word that seems to be almost exclusively aimed against men, we somehow tend to forget that the social group holding the most contempt towards women is… women themselves! Feminists judging bimbos. Bimbos feeling sorry for feminist’s small tits. Successful women belittling housewives and mothers hating women who don’t have their kids puke all over their dresses. I have never met a woman who has never shown any sign of contempt towards other women. Which, by the current definitions, makes all women misogynists!

With a definition this broad, the word loses any practical meaning. It becomes an empty slogan. One that can be used anywhere by anyone and against anyone with a high percentage chance of sticking, but… So what? The word still makes no sense in its current meaning, so we might as well just forget about it.

And really… What do we need the word for? If someone is hostile, just call him or her hostile. If someone represents male privilege, whatever that little monster of a term is, then just call her or him out on that, go ahead (and try to define it while you’re at it)! Don’t elevate it to some made up blanket term that is supposed to brand everyone in this planet as a “woman hater”.

And if that isn’t enough for you to stop using the word, then by calling anyone or any action misogynistic, you are assuming that the woman (including you, if you happen to be the target) said action or individual is opressing cannot defend herself, you are belittling her. And as we already know, belittling women is misogynistic. And that’s what’s so amusing about the current definitions. Every time you use the word misogynist or misogynistic, you are being a misogynist yourself. 

Tired of the word already? Yeah, me too. Let it rest in peace.

(originally posted in June 2017)

There's a desire in us for greater signs of fertility. Large breasts, the kind you can squeeze and caress. Tits that are expanded because the girl did it for you. This is an aspect of Bimbofication that I think gives it it's strongest source of interest. Controlling and modifying a woman to become a fertility an sex idol. The fantasy that someone wants to become a sex toy and needs only the concentrated encouragement you can provide. The best way to do this in my view would be to make it a shared effort. You want the Bimbofication to come from the fantasy of the Bimbo as much as yourself. If it's her body being changed to fit a higher impossible standard of beauty, she should have input on what sort of ass and cleavage expansion she undergoes. When the Bimbo takes possession of her body, it is better than if she was told to do so. Shared passion is better than a solitary fetish project projection.

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