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how TRAs look at me after hiding their blatant misogyny by slapping "white" in front of their anti-woman statement
you’re delusional if you think there are any ethical ways for a woman to be sold like an object.
something to think about
tims will literally write graphic rape fantasies about women and how they want to “correct” lesbians but will throw a tantrum when you tell them that males shouldn’t be in women’s spaces
Stoner Boyfriend (Lesbian)
Kinke Kooi – Butterfly (1997)
Acrylic paint on chromogenic print
Porn defenders will unironically say shit like, "When the actress is screaming and crying and begging them to stop, she's ✨️acting✨️ silly, it's not real. The tear in her anus is fake. The black eye is fake. You probably think dragons are real because you watched GOT. When she's smiling and says it feels good? No, that's real. Why on earth would she be acting."
The pattern of default referring to butches as “they” is so transparent and homophobic
"Feminism is for everyone" but it's women's job to facilitate change for every single marginalized group, women are the one's expected to monitor their vocabulary, advocate for everyone, spend hours analyzing their natural sexuality to make sure they aren't being prejudiced by not fucking certain people, and put all of their energy and focus towards every other cause before even thinking of addressing issues like reproductive rights or our astronomical rates of SA.
Meanwhile men get to sit back, jerk off to filmed rape, maybe make a "trans are rights are human rights!" or "women are people" tweet every once in a while and they get a standing ovation.
So from where I'm standing it seems like whatever feminism is now, it's for everyone except women.
the really ironic thing about terfs is like 70% of them are just transmisogynistic cishet men who pretend to be women online just to get a platform in transmisogynistic feminism. pretty fucked up
Chappell Roan is a blazing fakebian.
an abused wife of the 1700s who’s birthed 16 children and has not been allowed to leave the house for the last 7 years will write in her diary “i am cursed to be a woman. i wish i were a man, so i could be free, and i wouldn’t always be pregnant, aching, and i could explore, see the world, and learn. why did god forsake me with this body?” and you’ll search her name on tumblr and get “he was such a transmasc legend!! trans people have always existed! proof is right here! he suffered because he wanted to transition so bad 😔 this is why gender transition must be a human right, and deadnaming should be illegal. stupid TERFs, complaining about sex-based oppression. that doesn’t even exist.”
scored shoutout from sexy gf!!!!
i want to talk about a phenomenon in the trans community that reminds me of political lesbianism—a phenomenon that my gf refers to as “political transgenderism.”
during the second wave of feminism a lot of hetero/bisexual women stripped their sexualities and put on the label “lesbian” as a means to progress feminism. they believed that to be a feminist meant they had to exclude men from their attraction, despite the fact that sexuality is an innate, uncontrollable trait!
similarly, i see this sentiment crop up in trans communities. every single person who touts “you don’t need dysphoria to be trans” is a proponent of political transgenderism. they believe that in order to destroy the evil cisgenders, MORE people need to identify as trans or nonbinary! they believe that identifying as trans/NB is a valid political strategy.
my issue with both political lesbianism and political transgenderism is that there is no need to change your identity in order to fight whatever fight you believe in. i don’t need to claim to be Black in order to be anti racism or claim to be an amputee to be anti ableism. the only type of person who needs to center themselves and their identity in their political beliefs is a selfish and egotistical one.
political lesbians and political transgender people co-opt the struggles and vulnerabilities of marginalized groups. they use stereotypes and generalizations as an attempt to “pass” as “valid.” when really, the only thing that makes one a lesbian is exclusive female same-sex attraction, and the only thing that makes someone trans is dysphoria.
this is so so tender-i love my butch gf <33
Butch4butch comic By Leanne Franson
“Bof and Buzz in Rip up those roles
“i say mostly cis because, while i am largely gender non conforming…. i still am a woman?”
how sad is it that gnc women truly believe womanhood is about femininity
Being GNC and not transitioning is the most punk thing you can do actually
do people understand that the lesbian/dyke community was originally created by women who were comfortable enough in their womanhood but also in their gender expression to be butch and be masculine and love women in society comfortably with support from people around them who also experience the same thing?? as a dyke i have never once felt compelled to get top surgery or change my name or my pronouns, because im comfortable with the sex i was born as. i’m not saying anything is inherently wrong with sex dysphoria and wanting to transition however refusing to let go of a lesbian label while identifying as “male” or “male-adjacent” is just plain lesbophobic and misogynistic. the entire point of dykes is that they’re women who are comfortable being masculine. if you’re a women who changes everything about herself (ie name pronouns body etc) then what about you is dyke? and tbh idgaf if you “still feel like your connection to women is queer” it’s sure as shit not dykey because being a dyke is to be a masculine lesbian. sorry but you can’t have your cake and eat it too. when did words lose literally every meaning. how is saying “once a lesbian always a lesbian” and shit like this not coined as lesbophobic????
Society isn't "becoming more sex positive" it's becoming more porn obsessed.
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for reblogging period art
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for refusing to have a sexual relationship with a trans woman she knew because she was uncomfortable interacting with a penis
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for being uncomfortable with penis photos on her dash
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for disagreeing with a trans woman about something that wasn’t even trans related
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for saying the cotton ceiling was a rapey concept
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for talking about sex based oppressions (abortion rights etc)
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for posting a picture of herself with the caption “I love vaginas”
I saw a lesbian on a terf list for saying that she was having pms, and that guys were lucky to never experience it
Like, just admit you hate lesbians okay. You use to only witch hunt radical feminists (lesbian or otherwise), but now any lesbian who says one tiny thing you disagree with is instantly a terf. You’re not protecting people with your fake af terf lists. You’re attacking your libfem allies, and then you wonder why people are afraid of you and why they turn to radical feminism for support.
hi i made a tumblr bc my terf gf @dykeotomy demanded i speak my mind freely here bc i can’t do it at my overpriced liberal bs university
Ok congrats you don't like dick but what's makes you different than lesbians who like dick?
homosexuality