How To Write Best Friends To Lovers

How To Write Best Friends to Lovers

Credits to @/michael.bjork on TikTok

Transcript:

“Any advice on how to write friends to lovers without it feeling forced?” If you want to transition from best friends to lovers, the first thing you have to establish is what has kept them from being lovers until this point. Because that's why a lot of people don't find friends to lovers believable because they sit there a wonder, "You two have been interacting for years, you're both attractive, and you both seem to have crushes on each other and you have not acted upon this at all. Why not?"

The second thing you need to do for a best friends to lovers relationship, you need to figure out what the trigger is that's gonna make them start seeing each other that way or to start acting upon the feelings they have because, once again, they have been friends for a long time so what is happening right now that is making this the moment where they chose to come closer and act upon their feelings”

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No because what is this endless cycle of “I can love them but they can’t love me?”

I know I talked about their self-hatred a bit here.

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When that is not true!! It is enough! Always enough!! Ahhhhhh *hugs Sebek* 😭😭😭

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[Translation credit to Gasmask01]

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