i’m just a girl, i love art, books, writing, dancing and laying on the floor while I drink coffee and overthink my whole life.
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why does sex scare me
sometimes i feel so drained that i don’t even have the energy to get out of bed and i just stay there rotting and looking at the ceiling for some sort of i don’t even know what.
“I wondered why I couldn't go the whole way doing what I should any more. This made me sad and tired. Then I wondered why I couldn't go the whole way doing what I shouldn't, the way Doreen did, and this made me even sadder and more tired.”
i forgot my headphones at home , im gonna km
establish a workplace- clean your desk, line up your materials and make sure you’re working in a clean, organized environment
light a candle- have soft, cozy lighting! a sweet-scented autumn candle will definitely help :)
have snacks- a warm drink and some healthy snacks are always good when you’re getting work done
eliminate distractions- put your phone on do not disturb and make sure to put away any other distractions
write a to-do list- having a visual reminder of the work you have to do will ensure that you don’t miss anything. as you get working- cross off the tasks you finished
listen to a non-distracting playlist- this time of year i love listening to vintage autumn music! it just fits the whole vibe and makes homework/studying very fun :)
take breaks- when you really feel burnt out, take a break- walk around, take some time off, then get back to work
stay mindful- if you feel yourself getting distracted, do a quick meditation. remember WHY you’re working hard, WHY you’re studying. this will help you self-motivate
build a routine- once you find a routine that helps YOU study, stay with it. for example, i like to keep the lighting soft, open my windows, close my door and listen to music while i work. i never take breaks, but my approach will obviously be different, because we all learn differently.
I am jealous of those who think more deeply, who write better, who draw better, who look better, who live better, who love better than I.
-Sylvia Plath
the romance of sitting in a room with the person you love, each of you doing your own thing like reading a book or playing a game.... silent but full of love and warmth
Girl I find you as the most interesting person I ever knew.
The likes and dislikes you shared with me. The insecurities you let me know. The voids that made you feel imperfect. The health that kept you deteriorating. The tears that instantly rolled down your cheeks. Those little things of me that made you smile. The regression you felt after harshing me.
Everything of this is interesting to me.
Everything of you craves to be known.
Everything of you deserves to be everloved.