koifish86
he/they i have no idea what i’m doing just roll with it
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Aro culture is being really touch starved, and want to cuddle with your friend, and wonder if you have a crush on them because of this.
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"Friends don't look at friends that way" I think some of you just need to be nicer to your friends.
Oh that’s a thing?
aro culture is having a friend-crushes. I mean I have regular friends, and those who I consider my close ones, but also there are people towards which I feel intense "oh you're so comfortable, I want you to be a part of my life forever".
for the longest time I believed it was a crush, but, oh wow, turns out you have to want to date them, kiss and have sex, not just do science papers and cook together
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Some sketches that I actually got around to finishing :)
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im tired of people having these little nuances like i was talking about the word hate and i said “i hate nazis” and my friend was like hmm hates a strong word. for nazis ? no the fuck it is not. i could use stronger words too. i could curbstomp their sorry asses. i hate nazis and you all better hate nazis too
i think little sisters should be allowed to be annoying thats what i think
toph, my girl!
Aro culture is a slow journey of finding your own peace.
Signed, an older aro
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Having a crush while being aro-ace is soooo funny because I'm literally just like. I wanna go to the grocery store with you
ah shit sorry man i didnt mean to spill my "aro4aro friends with benefits relationship" all over your favorite ship, fuck dude my bad, it wont happen again
Aro culture is awesome!!! I love being aro!!! Like wow it’s so neat that we have community. I felt alone for so long but!!! We are everywhere if you’re willing to look hard enough!!!
ARO POSITIVITY BEAM.
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There’s a certain idea that’s been on my mind for a while so here you go-
A very cursed Iliad AU
agreed. I love Odysseus’ but Helen only ever had eyes for Menelaus
Ngl, one of my personal "no, absolutely not. No thank you" Oath of Tyndareus headcanons is that Helen liked Odysseus and wanted him first.
What do you mean Helen wasn't immediately captivated by Menelaus? The lorge, awkward, autistic man with his big brown eyes? The man who she very likely grew up at least knowing somewhat as he was in Sparta during his childhood during his exile? What do you mean Helen didn't see Odysseus simp for Penelope and tease Penelope about it as cousins do?
Like, not to be mean, but it gives "Odysseus is the main character and therefore everyone falls for him" vibes. I mean... it's semi-true, as goddesses even wanted him (not reciprocated) but I dunno. :/ I just genuinely think Helen would immediately know that she does not match or like Odysseus' freak and that her freak cousin would match better.
LOVE LOVE LOVE
The sweet cheeses again, you will always be famous Helen and Menelaus
Doodle undercut for funsies
don't ever look up what your childhood friends are up to now!!!!!!!!!! like girl you're a nuclear safety engineer. i put on matching socks today. we played tag a thousand years ago.
i have lots of sexual fantasies such as getting through a day without a headache
being on the aro spectrum would be a lot easier if being single wasn’t made to feel like a literal death sentence
"A world without trans people has never existed and never will"
Poster spotted in Olympia, WA
official elon musk hate post reblog to hate like to hate reply to hate
Great News Everyone
aromanticism
I still celebrate valentines with my best friend, while we never do anything too big one of us always asks the other to be their valentines and it’s one of my favourite traditions that we have going on for 12 years now. Valentines is meant to be a holiday to celebrate love why does it have to be restricted to romantic love?
aro culture is kind of forgetting that valentine’s day is supposed to be for romantic love because you always figured it was for all love (mostly because school always had students hand out candies so it SEEMED like a celebration for loving your friends….)
this is one of those things where i swear, people are like "oho children, this is what this is!" and then a few years later are like "oho, you believed that? You silly child of course I was lying!"
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My therapist told me to ‘feel my feelings’.
What bullshit!
I think I’m going to have a smoke instead.
Getting dangerously close to having a panic attack constantly, but then going ‘I could read a chapter of Howl’s moving castle’ and you’re ok again…
Aro culture is, okay fine i did enter a romantic relationship for research purposes and damn I aint doing that again. I don't know how to explain it, but it (a romantic relationship) somehow is very strange to me and i dont know where my repulsion is coming from. I could do exactly the same things without getting repulsed as long as it isn't explicitly labeled as ronantic. Mission failed i guess because getting into a relationship just gave me more questions.
So uhm yeah i still don't know why I'm so damn repulsed BUT i am not repulsed somehow if it isn't labeled as romance. Lmao wth is up with me🥲
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rb to have a very aspec 2025
Oh hey it’s in words 😀
aro culture is usually being romance neutral or favourable and a lot of your favourite media is romantic but suddenly being hit by repulsion dialed up to 100 and any mention or thought of anything to do with that stuff makes you feel like you're gonna throw up
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I’m scrolling through tumblr on a random Sunday a little drunk and I found this and it made me feel seen and a little emotional. :/ :)
People said that Tumblr isn't a great place to post original art that isn't fanart, but I'm doing it anyway because I haven't got the motivation to draw anything else
Happy pride month lads! 🧡💛🤍💙
from an aroace potato :)