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I was searching for rooms on pinterest for my sk8 dr and then I found this

But... I live in Okinawa in my sk8 dr... and it feels so out of place😭🙏 what do I do lmao

Alr so I've been in this shifting stuff for like… 4 years now off and on?

and i'm still not conscious of/remember a shift.

however, I will say that I've recently found out about something called the gateway tapes, which aren't necessarily for shifting but I'm pretty sure you can use it to help you shift.

I believe I still have it in my drive, so if you want that I can send that over to you ☆

It's okay hon, you're already there, whether you realize it or not (ik this is easier said than accepted but idk how else to say it) <3

I HAVE TO SHİFT TONIGHT

I really can’t with this reality anymore 😭

Drop all of your shifting tips please please please

Because it’s been 2 years and nothing has changed in my shifting journey and I really have to shift tonight. I don’t have enough power to stay here anymore. I attempt to shift EVERY SINGLE NIGHT and even if I want to take a break, I cant. I have to shift so bad. I’m not good. I don’t feel good at all. I’m so tired. Please someone help. Please. Please. Please. I beg you

I know you all will tell me no one can help me because shifting is something that only I can figure out what works for me. But I can’t anymore. Idk maybe something will click and I will shift.

shifting 🤝 the "gifted" kids who fell off and dk where it went wrong

if you reblog the questions from me then at least send me some first 😔

JUST ONE MORE MONTH I GOTTA MAKE IT OUT ALIVE😋💥💥💥💥💥

I CANNOT wait for the sk8 ova oughhhh

— SCRIPTING YOUR FAMILY. ( i swear it can work even if they’re not dead )

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— DISCLAIMER. script what you want !! this isn’t judgement or an attempt to convince you of anything. i still have ded family in some realities, don’t worry :^)

alright, so a lot of shifters skip right to scripting their DR families straight into the afterlife. gone, nonexistent, dead and buried. this is for a myriad of reasons, though for me and everyone i know, it has a lot to do with backstory, or the idea that family ties are going to cramp our style or get in the way of our dream life and the plot. but, for anyone who’s interested, let’s flip the script (pun intended) and talk about why creating an original, unique family for your desired reality can actually make your experience richer, more meaningful, and a whole lot more fun !!

WHY KEEP THE FAMILY DRAMA?

first off, let’s address the elephant in the room: family can be a lot. but scripting them out entirely can be like throwing the baby out with the bathwater !! there’s tons of potential to consider there. a family offers plenty of opportunities to add depth, lore, and a whole bunch of emotional layers to your DR. think about it—what’s a life without a little family drama, a bit of cozy love, or even a quirky aunt who always brings the laughs? it doesn’t have to be a big, happy family—it can be whatever you feel like you need, whatever fits

HOW TO BUILD YOUR DR FAMILY

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— SIZE MATTERS ( but not really ) .　　. 　 ˚　. when scripting your DR family, start with size. do you want a big, loud, chaotic family with siblings running around, or something closer to a small, tight-knit crew? maybe you’re an only child who’s the apple of your parents’ eyes, or perhaps you’re in the middle of a bustling household where everyone’s got a role to play. there’s no right or wrong—just what feels right for you, and what you feel like you need in that specific DR

— CHOOSE YOUR ROLES .　　. 　 ˚　. who’s in your family? a loving, supportive mom who’s your biggest cheerleader? a cool dad who’s kind of your best friend? maybe a set of grandparents who tell you the most insane stories about their youth, or a mouthy sibling who keeps you on your toes. think about the roles that would enrich your life in your DR. remember, these people are there to support your life, not unnecessarily complicate it

— CONNECTIONS .　　. 　 ˚　. now, here’s where it gets fun (in my opinion): your relationships. are you super close with your mom, the kind of close where you can endlessly gossip and have deep life talks? is your dad the type to give you space but always manages to have your back when it counts? maybe you have an insane sibling rivalry that spans over a decade. the relationships you script can add so much flavor to your DR—it’s all about creating connections that resonate with you, and support you in all the ways you want to be supported

FITTING INTO THE LORE ( making it make sense )

if your DR has a specific lore or world-building element ( Hogwarts, Marvel, etc. you know ), weave your family into it !! maybe your mom’s a legendary witch, or your dad’s a top Auror. perhaps your family runs a magical bakery, or you’re part of an ancient lineage with a complex magical or academic heritage. the point is, your family should feel at home in your DR, adding to the story rather than feeling like an afterthought that detracts from it

SOME IDEAS FOR YOUR DR FAMILY

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( just to get you started )

— MAGICAL LINEAGE .　　. 　 ˚　. your family has a rich history tied to your DR’s lore—maybe you’re descendants of a powerful wizard, or you’ve got a long-standing feud with another powerful family. drama

— ECCENTRIC GROUP .　　. 　 ˚　. a family full of eccentric or seemingly ridiculous people—a dad who invents magical gadgets, a mom who’s an expert potion maker, siblings who are always concocting some mischievous or downright strange plans

— TIGHT-KNIT TEAM .　　. 　 ˚　. quiet and likely unassuming—just a small, close family who’s been through everything together together. you lot might not be flashy, but their love and support are solid and you know you can always count on them

— CHAOTIC CLAN .　　. 　 ˚　. a massive, bustling family where everyone’s got their own unique role. maybe you’ve got siblings with vastly different personalities, parents that always have something insane to say, or aunts and uncles hailing from faraway places. family gatherings are always an ordeal

DON’T STRESS THE DETAILS

here’s the deal: scripting your DR family is about enhancing your experience, not stressing you out or detracting from all the things you wanna do. whether you want to create a sprawling family tree or just script a few key members, it’s all up to you. and remember—at the end of the day, your DR is personal to you. it’s about what makes you feel connected, supported, and ready to dive into the adventure of a lifetime

so, build that dream family !! whether they’re magical, mundane, or somewhere in between, totally supportive or bringing never-ending drama to spice things up, at the end of the day they’re there to add richness and depth to your DR. and trust me, it’ll make your journey all the more special if you let it !!

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ੈ✩₊˚ Hyperfixation & Shifting

If you're a shifter who struggles with hyperfixations coming and going, or feeling like you can never stick to a DR for long, it's important to remember that in each DR you're a whole different person with emotions separate from your CR. Let me explain:

It ultimately doesn't change anything if you shift somewhere at the height of your hyperfixation, or when you've become slightly disinterested in that reality as a whole. Your DR self won't be any different for it! You'll wake up there and feel excited, happy, in tune with your surroundings and a complete memory of always having lived in that place.

Remember that DR you wanted to shift to 3, 4 years ago? No matter how you feel about it now in your CR, if you shifted there today, your feelings upon waking up would be the exact same as they would've been all those years ago.

You can shift scared, angry, sad, and yes — disinterested & bored! What matters is that you do shift. You'll see that that dusty, forgotten old DR is gonna become a hell of a lot more interesting & exciting again once you're actually there. Try sticking with your current DR a little longer; it'll be worth it.

relative just gifted me a skateboard-shaped fragrance for my (late) bday... is this a sign y'all

SAIA'S GAME ; general !

here's a curt assemblage of questions for your dr life, reality, and existence. use it for yourself, or ask me something via sending an ask with the corresponding emoji / prompt + a reality.

✶ my drs... ;

¹ ˙𖦹 *∴ THE WORLD

⊹ 🏙️ HOME SWEET HOME — ✶ what does your home look like in your dr?

⊹ ⏳ TIME TRAVELER — ✶ what’s the time period or era of your dr? is it different from your cr?

⊹ 🔮 PROPHECY — ✶ do you have a special role or purpose in your dr world?

⊹ ⏰ MORNING ROUTINE — ✶ what’s the first thing you do when you wake up in your dr?

⊹ 🍽️ BON APPÉTIT — ✶ what’s a typical meal in your dr country/locale? what’s your favorite food there?

⊹ 🛍️ TREAT YOURSELF — ✶ what’s the coolest thing you own in your dr that you don’t have in your cr?

⊹ 🏛️ GRAND DESIGN — ✶ what is the core foundation of your dr? is it a utopia, a dystopia, a world of magic, or something entirely different?

⊹ 🔭 PARALLEL WORLDS — ✶ what is the biggest difference between your cr and your dr?

⊹ ⏳ TIMELESS WONDER — ✶ how does time work in your dr? is it linear, fluid, or something else entirely?

⊹ 🔮 FATED CONNECTIONS — ✶ do you believe your dr has a deeper purpose for you? if so, what is it?

² ˙𖦹 *∴ THE LOVER

⊹ 💌 SECRET ADMIRER — ✶ do you have a crush or romantic interest in your dr? how did you meet?

⊹ 🎶 SHARED PLAYLIST — ✶ what song reminds you of a special relationship in your dr?

⊹ 🩷 FAMILY BONDS — ✶ who do you consider family in your dr? are they different from your cr family?

⊹ 🕊️ SOULMATE THEORY — ✶ do you believe you have a soulmate in your dr? have you met them yet?

⊹ 🛡️ RIDE OR DIE — ✶ who would go to battle for you in your dr? who would you protect at all costs?

⊹ 💞 HEARTSTRINGS — ✶ who is the most important person in your dr?

⊹ 💌 LOVE LETTERS — ✶ who is your biggest love interest in your dr? how did you meet?

⊹ 🏹 STAR-CROSSED — ✶ is there a love story in your dr that feels like destiny? doesn't have to be yours.

⊹ 🕊️ FOUND FAMILY — ✶ do you have a family in your dr? are they different from your cr family?

⊹ 🏰 PARTNERS IN CRIME — ✶ who is the person you trust the most in your dr?

⊹ 💔 GHOST OF THE PAST — ✶ have you experienced loss or heartbreak in your dr?

³ ˙𖦹 *∴ THE FOOL

⊹ 🪞 MIRROR MIRROR — ✶ what do you look like in your dr? do you look the same or different from your cr?

⊹ 📖 STORYBOOK — ✶ if your dr was a book, what would the title be?

⊹ 🎬 MOVIE NIGHT — ✶ if your dr had a theme song or soundtrack, what would it be?

⊹ 💼 WORK & PLAY — ✶ do you have a job, hobby, or passion in your dr? what’s your daily routine like?

⊹ 🎭 ALTER EGO — ✶ how different is your dr self from your cr self?

⊹ 🏠 SAFE HAVEN — ✶ where do you go when you need peace and quiet in your dr?

⊹ 🏕️ WEEKEND GETAWAY — ✶ what’s your favorite thing to do in your free time in your dr?

⊹ 📸 PHOTOGRAPHIC MEMORY — ✶ (if shifted) what is your favorite memory in your dr? (if not shifted) what scenario are you most looking forward to?

⊹ 🎢 ADRENALINE RUSH — ✶ what is the most thrilling experience you’ve had in your dr?

⊹ 💭 UNWRITTEN PAGES — ✶ if your dr had a book, what is a chapter title that describes your journey?

⊹ 🦋 METAMORPHOSIS — ✶ how has your dr changed you as a person?

⊹ 🕰️ CHILDHOOD ECHOES — ✶ do you have the same childhood in your dr, or is it different?

⁴ ˙𖦹 *∴ THE MAGICIAN

⊹ ✨ FLEETING DREAM — ✶ when you wake up in your cr, what do you miss the most about your dr?

⊹ 🔑 ONE LAST GIFT — ✶ if you could bring something from your dr to your cr, what would it be?

⊹ 🌀 WILL YOU RETURN? — ✶ do you plan on shifting back to your dr permanently or just temporarily?