Learn What It Means To Be A Real Dom, As It Goes Much Deeper Than You Think. Especially If You're Trying

Learn what it means to be a real dom, as it goes much deeper than you think. Especially if you're trying to be a daddy/dom. Even if you think you're a good one, each sub/little has their own needs and wants, and it's up to you to learn what that is, and most importantly, be respectful of her; or you will lose her.

New little "rage dumping"

IF you are a Dom, I'm assuming you are in control. But you aren't only controlling me.

If you want to be a Dom, you need to learn how to control yourself first. Self-control and stability from a Dom are the most important things.

When your sub says they don't want to do something or feel uncomfortable, you have to respect it. Don't be pushy. Don't dominate them with exhausting. That's not dominating. That's abusing. If you **really** want to do it, find an alternative you both like and agree with.

You are in charge, and commanding is much harder than obeying, so you need to know how to behave and not hurt your sub as a "mistake".

Learn before trying. Study what you wanna do before.

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vindiver

3 weeks ago

You are not a bother. You are not a burden. You are not a waste of space. You are not annoying every person you talk to. Your existence matters. Your presence makes a good difference.

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vindiver

1 month ago

I've legitimately had this happen to me. If only I truly knew what was on her mind

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vindiver

1 month ago

Please be clingy with me, I love that.

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vindiver

1 month ago

Probably losing contact with my best (virtual) friend sometime in the near future. God I hate life sometimes. Why do I let myself become attached to people like this?

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vindiver

1 week ago

I really really love your blog. It has all the words I would want to hear. You seem like such a nice caring person (daddy if you'd like to be called that). I wish I find someone like you, I'm a really sensitive person and your blog has everything I need. 🥺

I'm happy that you enjoy what you see on my blog. I truly like to consider myself to be a very caring person, sometimes too caring maybe lol. I hope you get to find the perfect daddy to meet your every need and desire.

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vindiver

1 month ago

Sorry my cock throbbed when you called me dad in your little girl voice

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vindiver

1 month ago

There are so many better options than me

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vindiver

3 weeks ago

Get out of my head Tumblr, she is tired and needs her beauty sleep.