I'M DOING AN EXPERIMENT

Hi, so is it possible for me to be a trans girl, but prefer to be fluid in my expression? Like I know I don't fit in my body and need to transition, but after that, I want to be able to wear feminine and masculine clothes and express myself as more of a mix of both. Hope this makes sense.

Yes absolutely! Lots of girls are tomboys, and trans girls aren’t any different. 

So I'm just questioning my gender, but I'm sorta stuck. I'm amab and that doesn't bother me sometimes, but sometimes dysphoria is overwhelming. Like I want a female body but I don't mind being seen as male or female. I'd honestly prefer to be seen as both but still physically transition.

I get that. Trans people have a very intimate relationship with gender roles and can often see how the grass is greener on both sides of the fence. As much as dysphoria wanted me to be seen as a male, sometimes I wish people still treated me socially like a girl (because there are some benefits to that). On the other hand, i love being treated as a guy because it matches my personality and helps combat my dysphoria. It makes sense that, having seen one side, you’d want to be socially in the middle instead of on either extreme. 

It’s quite possible you’re a trans woman who just doesn’t want to bother with gender roles or social transition as much. I know for me, physically dysphoria was definitely stronger than social dysphoria, so I’d be fine with being seen somewhere in the middle as well. I don’t think it invalidates your gender at all. 

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I need some help with dysphoria. I'm not able to start E for about another year or two, but I'm really dysphoric about my hair in general. I haven't been able to grow it out, so that's one thing that bothers me, but also it's starting to recede and thin, and I need support and advice for preventing it as much as possible and cope with how much I've lost already. Sorry, long ask, its just really bothering me and worrying me.

Hi anon! I’m sorry you’re feeling nervous and dysphoric. I know that feeling and it really sucks. 

If you’re able, I’d talk to your doctor about hair regrowth treatments. There are medications out there that can help slow or stop hair loss, depending on a few factors. Unfortunately, since I am not a doctor, I don’t know what drugs are good options for you or if there are any safe OTC drugs you could look into. 

The good news is, there are trans women who had receded hairlines pre-E who have beautiful long, natural hair now. There are some examples of them in the Before and After tag. 

I hope you’re able to get the help you need soon!

Poetry on my Page

Starting now, I'll be posting poetry that I wrote on my page. Hope you all enjoy them!!!

This blog is participating in the protest

There will be no posts tomorrow, Dec. 17th in support of the protest against banning nsfw content (and the ineffective methods employed by staff).

Trans women? You mean…

Talented folks who happen to be

Real women and

Astronomically beautiful while also

Naturally amazing and

Spirited and should be

Worshipped like the goddesses they are, because of how

Overwhelmingly courageous, and

Mystical, and

Entralling and interesting and

Noble by nature, as trans women always are 💕

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What I say: Country music blows

What I mean: Modern country music, especially songs sung by modern male country artists, revolves around similar themes of toxic masculinity and nationalism. The recurrent lyrics referencing guns, trucks, beer and girls in short shorts are uncreative and not entertaining in the least. However, older country artists and folk rock bands such as Creedence Clearwater Revival and Johnny Cash have stronger, more diverse themes and often carry an overt anti-war message. I hate the fact that what was once an interesting and powerful genre of music has now been claimed by gun-toting conservative bearded dudes, and it hurts my heart to say I hate country music when there are so many country artists that I very much enjoy, but cannot state the fact that I enjoy country music without being associated with the aforementioned group.