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Lowkey thinking about writing up a new version of the masterdoc that cuts out the bullshit. 

(main edits being: no liking feminine men doesn't make you a lesbian, actively dissociating and imagining a woman MIGHT mean something. especially if it happens frequently in otherwise healthy hetero relationships.

Do you have trauma? how young? what ‘lessons’ were you taught from this trauma? “I can only receive attention and care under the condition that I am a sexual resource available to men” If that sentence kicked you in the gut, your sexuality is probably fucked up in general. go to therapy. be very careful with “LGBT friendly” therapists when you do.

  If sex with women makes you feel happy in ways that sex with men doesn't. maybe you have shitty boyfriends. but also maybe that is your inherent sexuality?) I would obviously want to do a fuckload of research before even writing a first draft but, is this even a thing anyone would want? can the masterdoc be fixed at all?

this was mind-numbing. I even checked her original profile and. yeah no she even identifies as a woman?? calls herself a tomboy?? (which she is not) how is being attracted to a gender conforming woman with short hair being gay?? what does gay mean to these people anymore? the RAMPANT homophobia of it is killing me

my videos are banned off of tiktok but this isn’t part 195

How the world is divided between McDonald’s and Subway

Britney Spears had an IUD forcibly placed in her body against her will but yeah rich white women always have control over their reproductive rights

No it means you are against the practice of kinning real human beings on earth (alive or dead) ...which is kinda wild you have to state that

Cis women shut the fuck up challenge

the way he almost got it. the gist is “why are women single? because men dont value them. women’s standards are too high” uh??? yes. bingo bullseye right on the money. nailed it my guy.

my videos are banned off of tiktok but this isn’t part 145

out of interest I just looked up transit directions in Google maps from my parents house to my house and it told me to drive 20 minutes to a park to ride bus station, wait 6 hours, get on several different busses, then get off and order a Lyft

I didn't know inner labia where a thing for years! I also thought I might be intersex in some way. When I found a diagram that labeled online it I cried in relief.

When I was about 12 years old I noticed this white stuff in my underwear. It was goopy and creamy but when it dried it became crusty. I had no idea what it was. I hoped that if I ignored it it would go away- it didn’t. Eventually I became worried. I thought that I might be slowly pissing myself, but the texture wasn’t right for that. I considered that I might be intersex, have testes, and that they might somehow be leaking. I wanted to ask someone about it, but because of the inherent shame and tabooness around women’s bodies I was too embarrassed to do so. I figured that even if I did ask someone, they wouldn’t be able to help me. I thought that this white stuff in my underwear was a result of me being a dirty freak.

I felt so much shame around my body. I was terrified of sleepovers or locker rooms or anywhere else where someone might see what’s in my underwear. I carried this shame for almost two years.

Then one day a friend’s mother drove me home from school. This woman kept some kind of puberty pamphlet in the back of the car for us to read. I happened to pick it up and read part of it. The section I read taught me that this “white stuff” in my underwear is called vaginal discharge, it happens to all women, it begins anywhere from a year to a week before your first period, and it’s part of my vagina’s healthy natural functions.

I was so reliveved to know that what I was experiencing was normal, but I was also furious. Less than 50 words could have saved me from years of pain and humiliation. But no one thought to mention it. My school had given us some basic sex ed, but they never covered it. But they did cover wet dreams because obviously that’s more important.

I’ve shared my story with other women and it turns out I’m not the only one that had this issue. Dozens of women got back to me telling me that they had the same experience. One poor girl, she messaged me saying something like, “I know this sounds weird, but thank you for teaching me what discharge is.” She went on to tell me that she was 19 years old and that she had been experiencing it for ~8 years and had no idea what it was until she read my post. As soon as she noticed this white stuff in her underwear for the first time she went straight to her step mother who promptly made fun of her for being a freak. The stop mom took her to the gynecologist but they couldn’t figure out what was “wrong” with her. She had been going to the gynecologist and getting all these unnecessary and invasive exams and tests done. She thanked me for telling her what vaginal discharge was and thanked me for letting her know she’s not alone. I sent her a DM telling and infodumped everything I knew about vaginal discharge.

I couldn’t believe her story. She had been going to licences medical professionals for almost a decade and not one of them could figure out that it was just vaginal discharge.

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When I was ~13 I put my fingers in my vagina and felt something. It felt like a tampon that had been left in there too long. I tried to pull it out but it was stuck. I then tried to scoop it out, feeling around the edges. That’s when I realized that it was attatched to me. It was not a tampon. I was terrified that it might be a tumor. But I was too scared to say anything because of the inherent shame and tabooness surrounding women’s bodies (again) and also because telling someone would mean having to admit that I put my fingers inside of myself.

About a year later I went to the gynecologist for an unrelated reason. I figured that now was the best time to bring it up. The nurse practitioner told me that I would need a pelvic exam to figure out what’s going on. I had been dreading getting a pelvic exam. I had been avoiding them for years because of a bad experience I had as a child. But I was so worried that I had literal cancer that I decided to tough it out. The nurse practitioner poked around for a while and asked if this object I mentioned was shaped like so. I said yes. She informed me that this object inside of my vagina was my cervix.

My fucking cervix! I never would’ve guessed. In the few diagrams of women’s anatomy that I had seen prior, the vagina and cervix look like two distinct organs. It always looked like the vagina ended then the cervix began. I never knew that the cervix poked out into my vagina like that.

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I had such horrible experiences I vowed to prevent as many women as possible from experiencing the same thing. I made a point to tell my sisters everything I knew before it would be too late. I volunteered to teach sex ed at my high school. I share my stories constantly in the hopes that it’ll prevent someone, anyone, from experiencing the same thing. If I can prevent just one woman from feeling the same that I felt, all of my work will have been worth it.

Why is this the norm? Why are so many women unfamiliar with their own bodies? Why is it that what litte sex ed we get focused on men and their bodies? Why did my sex ed covered wet dreams and how to wash your dick, but never once mentioned vaginal discharge?

I used to agree that 7th grade was way too early for sex ed. I now couldn’t disagree more. Many girls at my school began menstruating before those two hours of sex ed we got in 7th grade. Children need to know what’s going to happen to their bodies during puberty before it happens, not after.

My area loves to pride itself on having some of the best sex ed in the country, but we really do have so far to go.

This is why I’m going into sex therapy/research/education/writing. I want to give free speeches at middle and high schools so the students will be prepared. I want to write books. I want to write a book directed at parents on how to talk to their kids about their bodies and sex. I want to write a book directed at children and teens about their bodies. I’m dedicating my life to prevent as many people as possible from experiencing what I did.

Using tiktok as a radfem is a form of self harm stop doing it to yourselves queens

“LiTeRAlly TwO SecONDS oF gOoGLIng” I assume this is out of genuine ignorance. but please.

my videos are banned off of tiktok but this isn’t part 82

Oh yeah thats a whole nother wrinkle on this story. The tiktok man is SELLING his bones of suspect origin. And also buys bones without asking for where they came from. He sells multiple stages of fetal skulls. So God knows how many people have done that throughhimself store.

tik tok is having a bone stealing witch scandal. i repeat. tik tok is having a bone stealing witch scandal. but this time a man is collecting human spines

Okay I had hella thoughts about this one. Blossom mostly worships The Mother, and showed her sisters Filianism first. She gets super into The Clear Recital, she has every edition possible to get her hands on. She spends hours researching the history of Madrians. Buttercup mostly worships The Dark Mother, at first just for the edge factor of her name but slowly become really into the idea of God as unknowable force of nature. She also goes hard on witchcraft. Bubbles mostly worships The Daughter. She gets super into the holidays and has a party for every one. She also gets into decorations, rosaries, big elaborate worship altar. She is absolutely the type to buy Mary+Jesus paintings and figurines and just headcanon it as Filianist. She’s also probably into Chelouranya? She does canonically speak japanese after all..

The Powerpuff Girls are Filianists!

Requested by: @childofher

radfems will see someone whose the definition of mentally unstable rape their mom and then try to make it about transwomen being gross. y'all do not care about the fact the woman that was raped is suffering from dementia and likely a myriad of other conditions brought on by isolation and hoarding behavior. y'all just want an excuse to shit on trans people and it's fucking disgusting. get fucking bent.

sushuric devotee: ways to look more angelic! carry flowers everywhere, pink or gold eyeshadow, wear long ankle dresses, soft humming, have a pink glowy blush…

vikhelic devotee: wield a FLAMING SWORD

rhavic devotee: be covered in eyes

candrelic devotee: shine with the glory of a divine messenger!

rayatic devotee: be majestic and indescribable

thamelic devotee: wings in multiples of 12

matic devotee: tell people when you meet them to BE NOT AFRAID

sushuric devotee:

when you haven’t prayed in a while

so if literally everyones biology is different, how do you even define a cis woman? if sex doesnt exist cis/trans people dont exist. sex and gender cannot match or mismatch if one doesnt exist

tbh it's tragic that cis women have the ability to choose to perform traditional femininity by reclaiming it, or choose to opt out of it entirely and they are Still accepted as women,

whereas trans women are Expected to pass and perform traditional femininity or they are at a greater risk of violence by cis people...

then they have the simpleminded audacity to say that trans women "mock" femininity AS IF they did not just scroll past the hundred thousandth cis woman's account done up in pink and frills, cute, girly, glittery, "traditionally feminine" content and somehow that's not mocking femininity. The gag is that Neither Side is mocking femininity, they both express their femininity in the way they feel it, but yall only see a problem when the woman is trans? your double standards are showing...

being cisgender gives you DOUBLE the points than being a DOCTOR does. also being tall is equivalent to making a million dollars a year.

i want to start critiquing this but id look like a fool doing it. i cant even scratch the surface

Great art, sadly there is definitely a man jacking off to this somewhere. And he is looking like a millimeter away from that baby's head. Not the choice I would made tbh.

What do we think of the new Halsey album cover gyns??? This is a censored version, her entire boob is out in the actual cover. Tbh I’m really disturbed by the recent trend of women being partially naked on their album covers.

Here’s what Halsey said about this cover: “This album is a concept album about the joys and horrors of pregnancy and childbirth. It was very important to me that the cover art conveyed the sentiment of my journey over the past few months. The dichotomy of the Madonna and the *****. The idea that me as a sexual being and my body as a vessel and gift to my child are two concepts that can co-exist peacefully and powerfully. My body has belonged to the world in many different ways the past few years, and this image is my means of reclaiming my autonomy and establishing my pride and strength as a life force for my human being.

This cover image celebrates pregnant and postpartum bodies as something beautiful, to be admired. We have a long way to go with eradicating the social stigma around bodies & breastfeeding. I hope this can be a step in the right direction!”

I hate the idea that women need to be sexual in order to reclaim their ‘autonomy’, and that they need to be sexual in order to show that they’re worthy of being admired.

It will be hard as hell, but every moment of labor will be -yours- and it gets so much easier when we work together. I can't wait to go.

LETS GOOOOOOOOOOO

Reaching out to realtors in Alaska is such a good feeling ladies! There's a beautiful 44 acre piece of land that's come available recently and we may be able to secure it with 35% down, if you'd like to donate to our land fund you can do so here

FUCK. honestly just FUCK. We missed a very important day yesterday.

Would you like to see the interview in which he clarifies he is a gay man? I would be willing to go find it for you. Misgendering is violence and all that.

this is what the lgbT community was founded upon - the backs of brown and black trans women. deny it but it will never make it any less true. denying history is a pathetic hobby

fuckkkkkkkk i hope all you terfs rot in hell 

“thinking they deserve another woman’s love“ is ABSOLUTELY imposing on bodily autonomy. Noone ‘deserves’ love. There is nothing you can ever do that *earns* someone’s love. It is given based on attraction and affection. if you don’t make that cut too fucking bad.

“im not a terf i just dont believe lesbians should be forced to have sex with bodies they dont have an attraction to :)” i have some news,

good things will happen 🧿

things that are meant to be will fall into place 🧿

buy yourselves a cheap calendar and a red pen I guess. Only safe way to do it with these vultures everywhere.

You know any period tracking apps that don’t refer to us in dehumanizing ways?

I used to use the SimpleInnovation Cycle Tracker, but I stopped like 2 years ago so I don’t know if they’ve changed their lingo since. I think the logo is still a feminine facial silhouette, but I don’t remember if it ever says “woman” or “menstruator” or what

anyone got any recommendations?

MEDICINE THAT YOU ABSOLUTELY SHOULD NOT TAKE IF YOU ARE PREGNANT

Ladies, listen up.

If you are pregnant, there’s a medication that you absolutely should never take. It’s called misoprostol, sold under the brand name Cytotec in the USA. It’s a medication used to treat ulcers.

This medicine can cause you to lose your pregnancy, especially if you are less than 10 weeks pregnant! So you definitely want to avoid taking this medication. Here is a pdf that will tell you all of the ways you should not take this medication if you are pregnant, and what to do if you accidentally take this medication while pregnant. It can be dangerous! Remember - if you’re having a miscarriage, always seek medical assistance. You may be at risk for hemorrhage or infection. 

While I’m giving out useful advice, ON A COMPLETELY UNRELATED NOTE…

You definitely should never use a website like this one. These websites are illegal. In the US, it is illegal to possess a prescription medication without a prescription, even if was purchased in a country where a prescription is not required. Sometimes, websites like this can even be kind of shady! They can have complex checkout procedures that require you to watch Youtube videos like this one to figure out how to do it. So definitely avoid sites like this.

Make sure to share this information with everybody you know!

Elizabeth Sweetheart, “The Green Lady” Kitten Kay Sera, “The Pink Lady” Ella London, “The Yellow Lady” Sandra Ramos, “The Purple Lady” Zorica Rebernik, “The Red Lady”

And when we DO call men ‘boys’ it’s usually to let them not take responsibility ie, “boys will be boys”

When you call a woman a “girl”, you reinforce the infantilization of women as helpless, irrational, weak beings in need of protection. A diminutive term, “girl” denies a woman her adulthood, her maturity and her power. Notice the frequency in which we call men “men” or “guys” but call women “girls”. This is no coincidence. This use of language is rooted in sexism and it is disrespectful, patronizing and disempowering. A woman is not a female child. Stop calling women “girls”.

Buttercup was a huge inspiration for me as a kid. Tough and brash, literally 5 but takes no shit ever, But when they show her aged up as a teenager...

And they all TALK the same in this scene, their personalities replaced with “teen girl” Like you would think its parody! These dudes really only have one way in their minds to be a young woman. (This was not a long scene, and the idea isnt very fleshed out but.. jesus.)

Honestly I wonder how many women would have “grown out” of being tomboys if we had literally ever seen adult butch women on TV or in a movie or read about one. We occasionally get the little girl character who likes playing in the mud or catching bugs (which, don’t get me wrong, is great) but nothing after childhood. It’s like girls are being told, “we’ll tolerate this for a little while but eventually you have to be consumable.”