She Is A Virgo...

She is a Virgo...

She is that kind of girl that know exactly how you are feeling when you don’t even say a word. For her just a look it’s enough to guess.

She is that type of girl that know when you are lying right to her face but would never tell you because for her fighting over those things are useless, yet she will remember this when fighting with you.

She is the type to know all your flaws and fall in love with you even more after knowing them, even if you think there are things about yourself that are unlovable for her they are what makes you and she loves that. In her eyes those details are as beautiful as you.

She is that type of girl that always get you the right presents in special occasions, just because she knows all your tastes without you ever telling her.

She is the type that listen to any music without caring about the genre. For her, music it’s music independently of it’s type, singer or language. If she likes, she listen. Simple like that.

She is that type of girl that thinks a lot but talks a little, that feels a lot but show just a little. For her showing emotions it’s a definably a no-no. Her feelings belongs to her and only her, yet if you’re someone close to her she doesn’t mind sharing a little of information but not too much.

Be sure of what you want before going for this girl. She is not an easy task.

She is the sun and the moon, the pouring rain and the peace. All of this at the same time. Dealing with her it’s a daily struggle.

She is a critical girl not only with you but with herself too, don’t expect her to say what you want to hear but expect her to say what you need to hear in the sweetest way possible.

She is the type to caught everyone’s eyes without even trying, something just shine about her. With lovely eyes that are a mix of sweetness and mysterious at the same time you find yourself wanting to know her. And trust me, this is one of the best decisions you’re going to make in your whole life.

She is a box full of surprises, you think you know her but she is like a different season everyday. Just unpredictable. Someone you can’t read just because she doesn’t want you to.

She is naturally reserved, don’t try to push her because she will send you off immediately. You need to know when to give her space and when to pressure her to say what’s going on in that beautiful mind of her. You need to know how to read between the lines because

She is the type to say “Go away! I don’t need you! I’m okay” when in reality she’s saying “Please don’t leave! I’m breaking. It’s not okay”

She is the type that is all feelings but can control them really well, however her head it’s out of her control.

She is the type of girl that never stops thinking or worrying about something. Her brain it’s like a machine and never rest, so pretty often she has so many things on her mind and she thinks she may be going crazy. Yet she will never let it show. You can’t really know what she’s thinking and it’s frustrating because she know what you’re thinking before you even open your mouth. She can get to know you without even trying while you only get to know what she chooses to show you. It’s not on purpose though,

She is the type of girl that watches everyone and everything. She may not say it, but she did notice that new hairstyles of yours or your new shirt.

She is that type of girl that is delicate with soft features that gives you a feeling of peace even if you know that she’s actually a hurricane.

She is a mess yet she wants everything to be perfect.

She is smart yet she loves stupid jokes.

She is beautiful yet she thinks she’s not good enough.

She have many sides and you can’t choose which one you like the most.

She is the only woman who can be practical and deadly romantic at the same time. Being in a relationship with her means; discrete smiles, lovely stares, caring actions, loud laughs, coffee dates, movie dates, midnight talks, music, talk in general and tons of books.

She has a dazzling smile and a funny yet contagious laugh, the type to make you feel the need to do stupid things daily just to get to see it.

She is deep and loves to talk, can be a little shy at first but after she break out of her shell she never stops talking. Not that you care anyway, because when she starts talking about what she loves her eyes shine and you just can’t help but fall in love with her all over again.

She is the type of girl that will nag at you for not taking care of yourself and get mad when you say she is overreacting because “what if something bad happen?”.

For her it’s all or nothing, there is no in between. She either love you or hate you.

She is like a roller coaster that you don’t want to go down.

She is caring and it’s always there for you when you look back.

She is critical yet your biggest fan.

She is like a confident, a best friend.

For her the others always come first and don’t try to change her because that’s just who she is.

She is all at once, a mess, a perfectionist, and a big dork.

She is just herself and people can’t help but love her.

She is the sweetest person you will ever meet but probably the most sarcastic one.

She don’t voice out her feelings often but she show you in different ways everyday. You just need to want to see it. She is simple yet complicated, hot yet cold, lovely yet sarcastic, dorky yet smart. You can’t define her. She is everything and a bit more. She is a piece of art, something you won’t find everywhere, but something that everyone wants to steals from you. If she loves you, you just need to love her back. For her simple is perfect and perfection is her favorite thing, besides you.

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Virgo woman

Introduction:

Are you attracted to that reserved, polite, politically-correct and emotionally disciplined Virgo woman? She appears reserved, but she can be quite a chatter box too. She is polite but if you hurt her ego, she can sting like a bee. And emotionally- disciplined? That’s a mere masquerade. She is as emotional as the next girl, but believes intensely in hiding her emotions. With a hint of lethargy and a tinge of Nosey Parker, the Virgo woman’s personality has almost all shades of the spectrum.

How to identify a Virgo woman in a crowd?

My estimate says 60% of Virgo women are aggressive and 40% are passive. It is not difficult to identify them in a crowd. Almost all of them like to talk a lot and speak at the speed of lightening, just like Aquarius women. When it comes to fitting maximum words in one breath Virgo women can give Aquarian females a run for their money. I have also noticed that Virgo women like to gossip and sometimes they seem to mind other people’s business more than their own.

Compared to their male counterpart they are quick at making friends and are usually very social. However, there are about 15% of Virgo women who are reserved and introverted.

While observing them, I realized that they are extremely sharp and very quick on the uptake. Depending on their mood they can be quite witty and funny too. They seem to have an uncanny way of matching the wavelength and thought process of a man, which makes them more compatible with men. Virgo women have a lot of male friends.

What is her approach to life?

A Virgo woman can undoubtedly be both realistic and practical but she is governed by her moods and the extent of her practicality largely depends on that. She is less emotional and sentimental but more sensitive. This could be another reason why she has more male friends. She is also dreamy and idealistic.

She finds it easier to follow than lead. Although she has a strong opinion about everything she is comfortable at following rather than leading. This could also be because of fear of failure, in which case she wouldn’t want to take the responsibility.

Is there something more to her persona?

Yes, there is! A Virgo woman is a stickler for punctuality. She cannot abide late comers and her patience runs low when she is waiting for someone. Although not short tempered, she can let her lid fly when her expectations are not met with… especially about things she cares. According to me, she would score an nine on ten for punctuality.

Her ambitious drive is well backed with a hard working spirit. Given her analytical mind, she knows that nothing can be achieved without sincere efforts. However, when it comes to work or relationship, she is quite conservative in her attitude and you may have a difficult time to get her to accept new ideas.

How is she when in love?

Hmm… before I answer that one let me tell you what love is for a Virgo woman. There is only one definition of love for her… true, pure and exclusive. She will not tolerate passing affairs or insincere feelings. Once her heart is set on something, she will move with a determined gait to achieve it. But let not all this talk of determination and ambition make you think she is masculine. No ways! This one is a complete woman and a strong one at that.

While courting her you will have to keep a lot of things in mind. Firstly, etiquettes… this lady is a classic nit-picker when it comes to mannerisms and social behaviour. She will watch you with a hawk’s eye and will be satisfied only if you match up to her rather high standards of decorum. Secondly, underplay… she dislikes loud and brash behaviour, especially if it is about love. Public display of love is a big no-no with her. So keep it simple and subtle and of course genuine. And throw in plenty of charm and before long you will be humming the Jackson classic “The girl is mine…”

How is she in various relationship roles?

A Virgo woman can be extremely dependable and responsible as a daughter, provided she has had a happy childhood. She will remain devoted to her parents if she has been properly raised and looked after.

As a wife, she will excel in her duties as she takes her responsibilities very seriously. With a Virgo woman fora wife you will have no complaints about love and devotion. Moreover, she is also an excellent home maker. Since she likes to be in control she regards her home as her castle and does everything in her power to protect it. Also, being in charge at home she gets to do what she pleases. I have also found many Virgo women enjoying housekeeping duties and other related chores like cleaning,cooking, gardening, etc.

Being dedicated in every sense of the word, Virgo women prove themselves to be genuine friends. They usually wouldn’t have a huge circle of friends, but the ones that they do befriend…they’d hold them very close to their heart.

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daisyschangedhermind

6 years ago

SooYona and the Hairpin

I was reading chapter 62 of Akayona and…

We, of course, run into Yona’s hairpin. And we are given a small flashback of when Soo-won gave it to her. I just want to reflect on this hairpin and Yona’s feelings and the development through this manga.

First off, I want to acknowledge how much of a CORE and significant element this hairpin is. Lets start from when Soo-won gives it to her.

This hairpin was given to Yona on her sixteenth birthday and there are lots of things the reader may not acknowledge. Firstly, this hairpin is EXPENSIVE and HIGH QUALITY. So many people realize that, therefore it is seen as a beautiful gift and beautiful item, something a princess would totally own.

What I think is important is Soo-won took the time to search for an item for Yona’s birthday and came across this hairpin (while plotting his murder in Il). (If he only cared about murdering Il, why buy her a gift? Why buy her an EXPENSIVE gift?) He spent money on its quality, having thought she would like it and it would fit her. It shows how much he KNOWS yona. Like literally, Aro, a kai empire woman mentions it goes with Yona’s hair perfectly.

Now there’s two things I’ve considered with him purchasing this hairpin.

1. He did it to keep her from suspecting he would kill her father and keep this idea that soo-won is her perfect, beloved cousin and not a murderer. 2. He genuinely wanted to give something to Yona that she would like and appreciate. A gift that’s tangible and able to be shown off to others. Small enough to not be over the top but big enough to mean something.

I’ve concluded there’s a little bit of both of these in his actions. Soo-won DOES care for Yona, despite killing her father.

In soo-wins mind, king Il is evil. He’s a heinous leader and he can’t stand him. Yona, however, is someone soo-won deeply cares for, but his love for the kingdom seems to overpower his care for her.

I also want to acknowledge the fact that Soo-won had many chances to kill Yona: - Literally right after he killed Il - In the courtyard - When he met her in the earth tribe after kumji’s death (CRUCIAL PART OF THE DEVELOPMENT OF THEIR RELATIONSHIP because 1) he didn’t kill Yona 2) he was shocked and relieved she was alive and so was hak 3) he hid her from judo and the guards 4) he LOWKEY said she can kill him after he finishes his duties as king 5) he tells her a very heartfelt goodbye) - When they met with lilli - When they met during the Nadai arc

Many more. BUT HE DOESNT. He does not hate Yona and he does not despise her. There is LOVE there. Certainly. Whether it be romantic or platonic, he has love for his cousin.

Back to this chapter, I’ve realized that a lot of people hate how Yona has held onto this hairpin.

But let’s reflect on why.

I’m sure many of you can relate to having a first love. Try putting yourselves in yona’s expensive customized royal shoes, okay?

Soo-won in Yona’s eyes is the definition of perfect. He’s intelligent, good looking, friendly, accepting, considerate, and incredibly optimistic.

Really, there’s no point for anyone to question his personality, especially Yona. So for years, yona’s love for him built up and up and up with every good thing he did for her and others. Who, ever in their right minds, would think that he would do any wrong, let alone murder her father? It’s such an irrational thing that it probably shocked her more than frightened her when she saw soo-won kill her father.

And JUST DAYS BEFORE, soo-won gave her something that halted her hate for her hair. He’s been in Yona’s life forever and he’s been her best friend, her crush, hell he was her mother at one point.

Soo-won literally is everything she’s always wanted. Now imagine your first love giving you something that is so thoughtful and beautiful, and then SAYS YOURE BEATIFUL ALONG WITH IT. Can you imagine?! If my first love said that, I’d cry in happiness. Seriously. Like, Yona has been in love with this guy who she deemed beyond perfect for YEARS. YEARS, she has been dancing for him, practicing the harp for him, preparing sweets and wanting to engage in dangerous activities because she was that in love with him. I mean cmon guys, Yona had it so unbelievably bad for him. Probably way worse than we did for our first loves.

He is such a crucial part of Yona’s life. She wanted to MARRY this kid and hand him the throne. Okay?

Now just imagine, IMAGINE your first love betraying you just once. And really all it took was once for him to shatter her image of him. But even though it was incredibly painful and so wrong on so many levels, she can’t forget what he was to her before and how he treated her for sixteen freaking years.

Let’s also acknowledge that 99% of the time, first loves never leave. That’s what sucks about first loves. They stay. You may move on, you may develop feelings for someone else, but first loves will always have that hold on you.

In Yona’s life, there was no other guy except for hak and he was SO much more different from soo-won. Seriously, in Yona’s head, as much as it sucks for Hak, there was NO WAY at the time that Yona would ever consider hak. Ever. No way.

And could you really blame her?

Sure, they’re both incredibly hot and great guys, but I would personally choose the guy who wasn’t an asshole to me, who didn’t tease me, and who protected me when someone important to me died as a child. (Hak probably awkwardly would’ve done the same thing, but he got OFFENDED when soo-won and Yona held hands).

Soo-won is literally Yona’s and our Prince Charming. Without even realizing it, he’s incredibly romantic and kind and loving. Like seriously guys, Soo-won is so freaking important to Yona.

That hairpin isn’t just a hairpin. It’s the precious memory of the Soo-won Yona fell in love with. It’s the precious memory of being his best friend since childhood. It’s so much more than a hairpiece.

Losing that hairpin would be accepting reality and letting go of the boy who meant the absolute world to her.

And that’s why this hairpin is so freaking important AND WHY IT WAS SO SHOCKING SHE FINALLY LET IT GO AND LET SOOWON GO.

Give Yona credit. That must’ve hurt like hell. And she did it for her dragons. Sure, from the outside, she gave away a hairpin that she liked but she literally let go of the past. She accepted that the Soo-won she knew and loved is not who he is now.

Even though that girl was a spoiled princess, she hit ROCK BOTTOM and look at the way she’s grown and developed and become a SOLID WOMAN. A WARRIOR.

No wonder Soo-won can’t move when she confronts him. No wonder Hak can’t help but brag about her. No wonder kija has a crush on her. No wonder shin-ah and yoon cry at the thought of Yona hating them or getting hurt. No wonder Zeno wants to shield her from danger. No wonder Jaeha wants to tease her.

The girl is a piece of art.

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daisyschangedhermind

6 years ago