This is a blog from a 43 (44 now) year old male, which is me. I've learned that sex is at it very best when your goal is making her cum harder, and more than she's ever had. For myself the goal isn't cumming, it's about everything that leads to it. The special girl that I've learned most of that with is still to this day teaching me more, and says I'm teaching her as well. We have learned and taught each so much, and are great at it. I really don't think it's possible to do what we do together with anybody but her. These are a lot of what we've done, and mastered together. I do love my piece of Candy!!
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High y'all!! Where y'all located?
Southern Indiana.
Damn this is sooooo fucking true!!
Ever come to Clovis NM
No, But when I was two or three I was in Albuquerque because my great grandfather passed away. That’s about as close since then.
How r y'all tonight
Doing alright, watching her paint her nails for the 3rd damn hour!
Bout to get spun in Southern Indiana.
Pleaseeeeee ask me some of these
1: Kitchen counter, couch, or on top of the dryer? 2: Your last sexual encounter: Good or bad, and why? 3: A fictional person that you think would be good in bed: 4: Something that never fails to make you horny: 5: Where is one place you would never have sex: 6: The most awkward moment during a sexual experience was when: 7: Weirdest thing that ever made you horny: 8: What is the best way to sexually bind someone: 9: What is the fastest way to make you horny: 10: Top or bottom? 11: We were about to have sex but then ________ 12: Is one orgasm enough? Are multiple orgasms necessary? 13: Something that you have hidden in your room that you don’t want anyone to find: 14: Weirdest nickname a significant other has ever called you: 15: Two things you like [or dislike] about oral sex: 16: Weirdest sexual act some has performed [or tried to perform] on/with you: 17: Have you ever tasted yourself? [If no, would you?] [If yes, what did you think?] 18: Is it ever okay to not use a condom: 19: Who was the sexiest teacher you ever had? 20: A food that you would like to use during a sexual experience: 21: How big is too big? 22: One sexual thing you would never do: 23: Biggest turn on? 24: Three spots that drive you insane: 25: Worst possible time to get horny: 26: Do you like it when your sexual partner moans? 27: Worst sexual idea you ever had: 28: How much fapping is too much fapping: 29: Best sexual complement you ever got: 30: Bald, landing strip, Jumanji: 31: Is it good sex if you don’t nut: 32: Fill in the blank: “If they ____________, we are fucking. 33: What your favorite part of your body? 34: Favorite foreplay activities: 35: Love or Sex? 36: What do you wear to bed? 37: When was the first time you masturbated? 38: Do you have any nude/masturbating pictures/video of yourself? 39: Have you ever/when was the last time you had sex outside? 40: Have/would you ever have sex in public? 41: Have/would you ever had a threesome? 42: What is one random object you’ve used to masturbate? 43: Have/would you ever masturbate at work/school? 44: Have/would you ever have sex on a plane? 45: What is one song you’d like to have sex to? 46: What is something nonsexual that makes you horny? 47: Most attractive celebrity? 48: Do you watch gay/lesbian porn? why/why not? 49: If a child was born on the occasion of the last time you had sex, how old would that child be right now? 50: Has anyone ever posted nude pictures of you online? 51: What is one thing that NEVER makes you horny? 52: Do you have stretch marks? (How do you feel about them? Has anyone ever had a problem with them?) 53: Do you like giving head? (why/why not) 54: How do you feel about tattoos on someone you are interested in? 55: How would you feel about taking someones virginity? 56: Is there any food you would NOT recommend using during a sexual encounter? 57: Is there anything you do on Tumblr that you would not like your significant other to see? 58: Do you own any sex toys? (what is it? how long have you had it?) 59: Would you give your significant other unrestricted access to your Tumblr for a day? 60: Would you be offended if your significant other suggested you get plastic surgery? 61: Would you rather be a pornstar or a prostitute? 62: Do you watch porn? 63: How small is too small? 64: Have you ever been called a freak? Why? 65: Who gave you your last kiss? Did it mean anything? 66: Would you switch phones with your significant other for a day? 67: Do you feel comfortable going “commando”? 68: Would you have a problem with going down on someone if they hadn’t shaved their pubic hair? 69: If you could give yourself head, would you? 70: Booty or Boobs? 71: If you had a penis, what would you name it? 72: Have you ever been on an official date? 73: Have you ever cheated on someone? (Why?) 74: If you were a stripper, what would your name be? 75: Have you ever had sex in your parents bed? (Would you?) 76: How would you react if you found out your parents had sex in your bed? 77: What was your reaction the first time you saw a penis/vagina? 78: If you had a penis for a day, what are five things you would do?
1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged? 2. You talked to an ex today, correct? 3. Have you taken someones virginity? 4. Is trust a big issue for you? 5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently? 6. What are you excited for? 7. What happened tonight? 8. Do you think it’s disgusting when girls get really wasted? 9. Is confidence cute? 10. What is the last beverage you had? 11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust? 12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans? 13. What are you gonna do Saturday night? 14. What are you going to spend money on next? 15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed? 16. Do you think you’ll change in the next 3 months? 17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything? 18. The last time you felt broken? 19. Have you had sex today? 20. Are you starting to realize anything? 21. Are you in a good mood? 22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks? 23. Are your eyes the same color as your dad’s? 24. What do you want right this second? 25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy? 26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color? 27. Would you be able to date someone who doesn’t make you laugh? 28. What was the last thing that made you laugh? 29. Do you really, truly miss someone right now? 30. Does everyone deserve a second chance? 31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to? 32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do? 33. Are you one of those people who never drinks soda? 34. Listening to? 35. Do you ever write in pencil anymore? 36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is? 37. Do you believe in love at first sight? 38. Who did you last call? 39. Who was the last person you danced with? 40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed? 41. When was the last time you ate a cupcake? 42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today? 43. Ever embarrass yourself in front of a crush? 44. Do you tan in the nude? 45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss? 46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night? 47. Who was the last person to call you? 48. Do you sing in the shower? 49. Do you dance in the car? 50. Ever used a bow and arrow? 51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer? 52. Do you think musicals are cheesy? 53. Is Christmas stressful? 54. Ever eat a pierogi? 55. Favorite type of fruit pie? 56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid? 57. Do you believe in ghosts? 58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling? 59. Take a vitamin daily? 60. Wear slippers? 61. Wear a bath robe? 62. What do you wear to bed? 63. First concert? 64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart? 65. Nike or Adidas? 66. Cheetos Or Fritos? 67. Peanuts or Sunflower seeds? 68. Favorite Taylor Swift song? 69. Ever take dance lessons? 70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing? 71. Can you curl your tongue? 72. Ever won a spelling bee? 73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy? 74. What is your favorite book? 75. Do you study better with or without music? 76. Regularly burn incense? 77. Ever been in love? 78. Who would you like to see in concert? 79. What was the last concert you saw? 80. Hot tea or cold tea? 81. Tea or coffee? 82. Favorite type of cookie? 83. Can you swim well? 84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose? 85. Are you patient? 86. DJ or band, at a wedding? 87. Ever won a contest? 88. Ever have plastic surgery? 89. Which are better black or green olives? 90. Opinions on sex before marriage? 91. Best room for a fireplace? 92. Do you want to get married
Southern Indiana!!
Southern Indiana.
❤
1. Top turn on?
2. Last time you had sex with the opposite gender?
3. Last time you had sex with the same gender?
4. Last time you masturbated?
5. What’s the weirdest thing that has turned you on?
6. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve masturbated with?
7. What’s the weirdest kind of porn you’ve watched?
8. How often do you masturbate/have sex?
9. Have you ever taken nude pictures?
10. Dom or Sub?
11. Is pain a good thing?
12. Do you like biting?
13. Do you like scratching?
14. Are you slightly horny right now?
15. Are you very horny right now?
16. Do you like face fucking?
17. 10 of your biggest turn ons?
18. Do you cook naked?
19. Do you like foreplay?
20. Have you had a vaginal orgasm?
21. Do you like sex with women?
22. Do you like sex with men?
23. Would you have sex with a trans* person?
24. Do you like your nipples played with?
25. Do you like your lips bitten?
26. Do you like to kiss with tongue?
27. How often do you masturbate?
28. Have you masturbated while someone else was in the room?
29. Would you have sex with a married person?
30. Would you have sex with a couple/multiple people?
31. Do you go outside naked?
32. Do you like being woken up with sex?
33. Do you give oral?
34. Would you let someone eat off of you?
35. What is the youngest/oldest you would sleep with?
36. Do you like having drunk sex?
37. Do you enjoy wearing lingerie?
38. What is your favorite thing about sex?
39. What is your favorite sexual setting?
40. Would you ever fool around in a movie theater?
41. Would you ever make a porno with your bf/gf?
42. Would you ever do a photo shoot in sexy clothes for your bf/gf?
43. Do you like it rough or sensual?:
44. Do you prefer to be with the opposite sex or the same sex? or both?
45. How often do you get drunk and have wild, crazy sexy with a complete stranger?
46. How do you feel about one night stands?
47. Do you prefer to make love or fuck?
48. Have you ever watched porn while having sex?
49. How long do you usually fore-play before doing the deed?
50. Do you like kissing during sex?
51. Does size matter?
52. How many sexual partners have you have in the last month?
53. What does your favorite foreplay include?
54. Have you ever done anal? If so, did you like it?
56. Do you ever worry about how you’re pleasing your partner?
57. Could you live without sex?
58. How long does a typical sexual episode last for you?
59. Do you like to perform oral sex?
60. Do you like to receive oral sex?
61. Have you ever taped yourself in the act?
62. Have you ever had a 3-some? 4-some? 5-some?
63. Have you ever been caught in the act?
64. Have you ever had sex while on drugs?
65. Would you let other people watch you have sex live?
66. Do you ever have sex in the shower?
67. What was the biggest age difference with a partner?
68. Do you feel your up to par in bed?
69. What was your most embarrassing sexual moments?
70. Do you like having sex in cars? If so, driver seat, passenger, or back?
71. Do you wear protection as often as you should?
72. Do you prefer to sleep with someone older or younger than you?
73. Have you ever done bondage sex (chains ,whips, etc.)?
74. Can you remember who gave you the best sex of your life?
75. If you could sleep with ANYONE, who would it be?
1. How was your first kiss? Tell us about it
2. How often would you have sex in your ideal world?
3. What’s your self-love routine?
4. What makes you feel comfortable during sex?
5. What makes you feel anxious/stressed/nervous about/during sex? (let’s start normalizing these things, we all feel them)
6. What keeps you in the moment while having sex? How do you connect to your body while at it?
7. Where do you like to be touched most? Do you like the touch to be hard/soft/variable/repetitive?
8. Describe your perfect kind of sex in ONE word!
9. Do you use drugs/other substances to alter your experience during sex? Do you enjoy sex without them as well?
10. Do you prefer monogamous or non-monogamous (polyamorous/open) relationship styles?
11. Which kind of sexual encounter sounds most exciting to you right now (hook up/one night stand/threesome/orgy/masturbation etc.)?
12. Do you need emotional connection for sex (to be good)?
13. Describe a sexual/romantic fantasy you had before you had sex for the first time (if you can’t remember, describe one you had a few years ago) and one you have now!
14. Do you like hierachial structures during sex?
15. Do you like to be more dominant, submissive, switch or neutral in sex play?
16. Do you feel supported in your sexual preferences by friends/society/your partner(s)?
17. Do you feel like it’s okay for you to enjoy non-conforming sexual practices/roles in our heteronormative, patriarchic society? Or do you feel like gender roles stand in your way of sexual liberation?
18. Have you ever experienced guilt or shame around your sexuality?
19. Do you enjoy communication during sex or do you prefer to not talk?
20. What sexual/romantic act have you always wanted to try, but haven’t been sure if you’d enjoy it/didn’t know how to do it?
21. Do you feel pleasure in receiving pain?
22. Do you feel pleasure in causing pain to your partner(s)?
23. How do you check in with your partner(s) during sex? How do you establish consent (any fun/playful ways maybe)?
24. Describe the relationship you have to your genitals in ONE word?
25. Do you enjoy using sex toys? How many do you have?
26. If you could invent the perfect sex toy for you, how would it look like/what could it do (get creative)?
27. Do you enjoy being restrained/tied up? How does this practice makes you feel/why do you enjoy it?
28. Are you into BDSM? Why do you enjoy it?
29. What has been the funniest sexual encounter/experience you had?
30. How do you feel about sex in public? Do you like to watch or be watched?
31. Ever been to a Swinger Club? If no, would you?
32. Do you enjoy cyber sex? Sexting, cam sex, telephone sex etc.?
33. What does your after-sex/after-care routine look like?
34. Have you ever felt so emotionally overwhelmed/physically overstimulated that you cried during sex?
35. Have you ever tried tantra or breathing exercises/meditation during sex? [If not, do it, it will change your life :) ]
36. How do you engage in safer sex? Do you talk with your sexual partner(s) about contraception/STD’s before sex or even at all?
37. What kind of porn do you enjoy?
38. Do you have any fetishes and if so can you remember, since when you consciously knew of them?
39. Are you happy with your sex life at the moment? If not, what would you like to change about it?
40. How do you define sex (does foreplay/oral/cuddling etc. fall into the definition)?
41. What unconventional sex practices do you find alluring?
42. Have you ever tried anal play? Did you enjoy it? What made it enjoyable?
43. Is there anything off-limits for you when it comes to sex? If so, what is it?
44. Do you like to be called a specific term during sex (e.g. babygirl, daddy, sir etc.)? Does calling your partner(s) a specific term, turn you on? If so which term it it?
45. How do you navigate disagreements/discrepancies surrounding sex with your partner(s)?
46. Which senses turn you on the most - touch, visuals, sound, smell, taste?
47. What does your sexual routine looks like and what would you do, if you had to do the exact opposite of that?
48. What other life activities can give you an equal amount of pleasure like sex does?
49. What tip(s) would you give others in regards to having amazing sex?
50. No question, just wanted to leave a little reminder: You are worthy of love. You are worthy of fulfilling your desires. You’re perfectly beautiful and desirable the way YOU ARE. No matter what your sexuality is, how your body looks like (it definitely is beautiful and holy either way), what gender-identity you have, what kind of kinks you have, if you have a partner or how many partners you have, if you like to not have sex, if you have a lot of different sexual encounters or none at all, if you’re in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship - YOU ARE AN AMAZING HUMAN WORTHY OF LIFE AND LOVE 🖤
Compiled this Sex Questionaire, that is a bit unusual and different, in hopes to make the Tumblr Community a bit more colorful and positive ! Some of these questions are my own, others are inspired by the amazing compilation from Shrimp Teeth, you can find down below. Share and support ! *Please do not remove the caption*
https://www.instagram.com/p/B-uqu26JIO2/
Of course!! We would share as well.