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The voice you don't expect...

Do not punish the behaviour you want to see

I mean, it seems pretty obvious when you put it like that, right?

But how many families, when an introvert sibling or child makes an effort to socialize,  snarkily say, “So, you’ve decided to join us”?

Or when someone does something they’ve had trouble doing, say, “Why can’t you do that all the time?” (Happened to me, too often.)

Or any sentence containing the word “finally”. 

If someone makes a step, a small step, in a direction you want to encourage, encourage it. Don’t complain about how it’s not enough. Don’t bring up previous stuff. Encourage it.

Because I swear to fucking god there is nothing more soul-killing, more motivation-crushing, than struggling to succeed and finding out that success and failure are both punished.

Wounds of the Earth

— by xis.lanyx

COPULA Antenna L/R ear clip

had a dream last night where I took a uquiz called “what do you serve?” and at first the questions were standard but as the quiz progressed they became more and more highly specific to me personally and the answers became more and more similar and I realised the quiz Knew me and was forcing me into being honest by giving me no other option so I tried to click out but it just went to the next question which was “are you the spider? or are you the web?” and it had an option for each but I didn’t click either so it then turned to a text box and I typed “I think I’m the fly” and the quiz paused for a while and then took me to a results page that said “you serve truth” and the description just read “what you know will kill you but you will die laughing” so like. good morning everyone I guess :/

Please come back..

Reminder: deeper wounds heal really fucking nasty! It's normal for them to look absolutely disgusting. Here's how to tell if they're infected

1- Appearance: how is the wound looking? Do you have previous times to compare? Is it yellow or greenish? If its the latter it's most likely starting to get infected

2- feel: how does it feel? Is it warm or hot when you touch the area around it? If so it's definitely infected

3- liquids: are the liquids coming out normal bodily fluids? If its yellow, green, or thick, that's pus and your wound is 100% infected

"Okay well it's infected now what do I do?"

Depends on how infected it is. If it's just starting to get infected, most care is just antibiotic ointment and hydrogen peroxide

If it's at a later stage of infection other things might be needed. If you yourself are getting a fever then you NEED to go to prompt care. If you are unable to, take something like Tylenol to help. Remember a fever is your body fighting the infection, the most you can do is try to help! Keep the wound cleaned and covered in ointment at all times. Monitor how much it's leaking and how hot the area around it is. If it hasn't subsided or you are noticing other symptoms then it is critical you go seek professional care. We don't want a limb lost here

Forced to live. Born to kill myself.

Always always too fucking much yet never enough

Idk if thats a bpd or a me thing

when you are very bad for years, people no longer worry.

you become invisible, a ghost.

I can leave now, everyone has forgotten me.

I just want to give up I’m tired from the bottom of my fucking soul like I don’t want to do this shit anymore like let me rest please I’ve had enough

i don’t want to live like this. i only exist at this point. all i do is distract my mind so i don’t kill myself

How are you supposed to just get up and go to school and go to work and come home and make dinner and fold the laundry and not want to kill yourself the whole fucking time.

literally wanna die so bad rn holy shit everything feels so pointless

i dont know how to ask for help without feeling like a burden

i just wish i wasn’t unlovable, this shit hurts so much idk if i can handle this anymore

If I ever kill myself just know I tried my fucking best and please forgive me

This TikTok made my day.

They should invent a way to kill yourself that doesn’t disappoint anyone

i know it's hard. but i so firmly believe the strongest antidote to loneliness is reaching out first. and continuing to reach out. again and again and again. excise any scrap of shame you hold about being the person who texts first or pitches the plan or asks to get lunch. everyone is tired and busy and struggling. and afraid of feeling unwanted and unimportant. don't let the people you love feel that way. reach out first. don't be a ghost in your own life.