Latest Posts by vindiver - Page 2

Ghosting doesn't work on me, imma text you again.

There is no perfection, there will always be struggle. All you have to do is choose who you want to be on this path with.

I hope it doesn't happen

i swear nothing hurts more than growing apart from your best friend.

To the ones who made my little cry last night, you can kindly F off in every direction. There's a reason that I was trying to remove some toxic people from my life, and yet you still tried to drag my name through the dirt, and drag her down with it.

I'm extremely happy that I have such an amazing friend that was able to become friends with my little, and to help her through that rough time, as well as help me through many tough times too. Thank you so much.

Today was a lot, but I'm happy that I was able to help the one who needed it.

I so happy today. Visit best irl friend of 30 years today, hear from best virtual friend tonight. Good day. Happy Easter

Just as a heads up to everyone. I'll be a little limited through the weekend for the holiday. I'm traveling to visit family, and maybe visit a couple old friends. So my responses will most likely be exclusive to a few people until I get back home, and won't be as often as normal.

When you really want to help someone you genuinely care about, but you are at a loss for what to do.

Men who date young girls but don't act like creeps

Men who understand the art of romance and passion and don't treat young girls like sex toys

Men who use their experience to teach young girls about their own pleasure, not to solely use them for his own

Men who use their experience to teach young girls about consent and boundaries, and not to manipulate them.

Men who date young girls with daddy issues and take their responsibility as a father figure seriously to help their girl heal from their trauma.

Men who display maturity and masculinity so a young girl can embrace her femininity and inner child.

Men who understand that love and respect must precede desire and lust.

This is how us men can set a good example of a healthy age gap dynamic. This is how we don't turn romantic young girls into cynical women.

Reblog if you think there is nothing wrong with an age gap in a relationship.

You want to call yourself her daddy?

What’s her favorite color? What’s something that always makes her laugh? What are her goals? Her dreams? What is she afraid of? Do you know what she likes do to when she wants to relax? Do you know what helps her when she’s had a bad day? Can you recognize when she needs extra love because she’s feeling needy but doesn’t want to say anything? Can you tell when she’s bothered by something? Do you know her favorite way to be held, to be cuddled, to be wrapped up in your arms? Are you her safe place to go to when the world gets scary? Does she feel safe opening up to you? Does she feel like she can tell you anything? Do you punish from a place of love/caring, for correction of her destructive behaviors, for her own good? Do you see her as a person, a whole complete, complicated person? Do you make her feel respected and cherished? Do you protect her? Do you take care of her?

Being daddy is way more than fucking her, and if you’re not ready to take her heart, mind, body and soul, and protect & treat them with all the love, care, tenderness, respect that you are capable of giving, then you’re not her daddy. You’re just some asshole who wants to be called that. And you can get fucked.

Me and who?

Kissing her on the forehead before she falls asleep in my arms.

need.

If you love me hard core then don't walk away

But craving that attention from me is what I crave.

everyone wants a clingy gf until she’s whining about not getting enough attention while you’re trying to work 🥺

Girls,

A younger guy will hang out with you. He'll turn up looking sheepish and lovestruck and try everything he can to impress you because he wants to get into your pants. His overwhelming goal will be to sate his desire for s3x because of all the p0rn he's been watching, and the chats he's having with his friends about 'scoring' girls as trophies. He'll focus on your tits and your boobs because he's obsessed by things he hasn't got. He'll try to be funny but when it falls flat he'll be awkward, he'll be self-conscious. As soon as you finish your time together he'll be thinking of playing his favourite game again, or what he can get to eat or when his team is playing next. He'll go home and jerk off and not front up to his reality. Ultimately, he'll be thinking about him.

An older man will take you out properly. He'll turn up well dressed and authoritative. You'll sense his power and control, his aura of purpose and meaning. He'll know exactly where he wants to take you, and how he wants to spend his precious time with you. You will feel guided and shaped to his will and his interests. You'll feel his magnetism and his charm, as he displays his dominant nature in every interaction. He won't focus on parts of you - but on all of you, because he wants all of you to feel adored but beholden to him. He won't treat you as a trophy, but as a companion. He won't try to be funny because he doesn't have to to keep you trapped and craving his attention and desire. He will have no fear of judgement. At the end of the night he will have a place to take you, and know how to touch you when you get there. He will know you will be powerless to resist him at this point, and he will fvck you to depths of pleasure you never thought possible. He will leave you leaking and broken in his bedsheets, obliterating every inhibition you ever thought you had - unlocking your kinks as he ravages your holes. He will hold you and stroke you after breaking you and nourish and develop your aching feminine soul in his warm paternal hands. Ultimately, he will be thinking about you.

It's your choice.

🤷🏼‍♀️

Where did I can find those doms? And what should I search for here on trumbl?

7 points and red flags to watch out for any new submissive

I am going to elaborate here as i am hearing horror stories from new, inexperienced submissives...On Tumblr...you are probably looking at just 30% are genuine Doms. So its all about being patient...the one issue is that new or inexperienced subs will be so eager and so excited to feel being dominated that they will just partner up with the first Sign of being wanted. You cannot do that. Remember these points and potential red flags

1, Do not just send pictures when they demand it (Genuine subs do not ask or demand )

2, Ask why they are not revealing who they are, with no signs of any identity you have no idea who you are talking too...how can you respect and trust someone you can't even see?

3, Whatever they want to know about you...you have the right to know about them..so do not be afraid to ask.

4, Are they online only certain times of the day? Any unexplained routine of this can possibly mean they have certain other commitments to others

5, In pre talks of becoming a submissive which can take from several days to several weeks, discussions should involve Aftercare, non sexual domination, safe words, your soft and hard limits with any boundaries...all with your participation and your requirements!

6, Not all Dom styles will be compatible with your submission...for instance..no matter what anyone says...DDLG does not pair up with sadism. So keep this in mind.

7, Always trust your gut instinct...not your head (brains overthink) not your heart (hearts are fragile and break easily) Always your gut instinct...if your gut says something feels wrong? It is!

Please reblog and share this info to make sure to protect submissives.

Weird dreams are coming back to me. This one was pleasant, and about someone that I really haven't thought of in quite a long time.

We recognized each other immediately.

Perhaps we came from another life where we hadn't yet finished loving each other.

pleasing you is always on my mind

Can't wait

this is exactly what i would do