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HELP WHY IS “HOMOPHOBIA” ON THE LIST OF SEXUALITIES 😭

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Alexandra Daddario

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ReciprocalSexual (LET ME KNOW IF THIS HAS BEEN COINED!!!)

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definition: Like reciprosexual, only for someone who is NOT asexual. A reciprocalsexual gains feelings (attraction: sexual, aesthetic, platonic, etc) for anyone who likes them, regardless of their sexuality, and can also like people who haven’t liked them back yet. If you identify with reciprocalsexual but only gain feelings(attraction: romantic, sensual, emotional, etc) for those of a certain gender or category (intelligent (Sapiosexual), well known to you (Demisexual), etc) when they like you, you are Limitedreciprocalsexual

you are also Limitedreciprocalsexual if the feelings returned by you are minor but still notable. Both identities can be used on their own or with other identities.

The romantic versions of this are reciprocalromantic and limitedreciprocalromantic respectively.

made this because I identified with reciprosexual but it’s only for ace people who only ever feel attraction when someone likes them so I had to make my own :)

One of my favorite side effects of my Year of Overthinking my Sexuality is what I learned about the differences between aesthetic and romantic attraction.

Did you know you can think someone is pretty, or cute, or handsome, without liking them romantically? Yeah! Maybe that's common knowledge, but I sure didn't know until I went down the rabbit hole of researching asexuality. The result of that extensive research and the discovery of separate terms for separate kinds of attraction is that I now feel much more comfortable finding people attractive.

The curly-haired boy on my cross country team? Cute. The woman with the braid carrying her child? Very pretty. The short kid I keep passing in the halls? Gorgeous. The big lady I ran into at the grocery store? Breathtaking. It's made me realize that the vast majority of people in real life actually look really good. Very few of them perfectly fit what I've been taught to see as conventionally attractive, but so many of them have faces I long to just . . . look at. I swear, ninety percent of the girls I know from church are prettier than any model I've ever seen. Most people, maybe even all people, are attractive in a very genuine, very mundane, and very beautiful way.

I like feeling like I can say someone looks good without implying that I like them. And I like admitting that if I'm honest, everyone looks good.

IM LAUGHING SO HARD I DIDNT THINK SEXUAL DESIRE WAS A REAL THING LIKE I ALWAYS SAW PEOPLE TALKING ABOUT HOW THEY WANTED SEX BUT I THOUGHT THEY WERE JOKING OR EXAGGERATING OR SOMETHING THATS WHY IT WAS SO HARD FOR ME TO REALIZE I WAS ACE BECAUSE I THOUGHT IT WENT WITHOUT SAYING SEX ISNT THAT IMPORTANT IM 19 YEARS OLD I CANT STOP LAUGHING LITERALLY 99% OF THE POPULATION EXPERIENCES SEXUAL DESIRE AND I THOUGHT IT WAS A JOKE

"I'm not shy, I have social anxiety." -Me to other people "...unless I find you attractive, then yes, I am also shy." -Me finishing the sentence in my head.

J. 🌌✨

Our voices sing in harmony.

Our hearts beat in unison.

Our bodies touch and melt.

We get lost together, as we

Collapse under our attraction

And give birth to a new star,

A glowing sphere of bliss.

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Similar souls exist. They call, seek and attract each other, and their mutual search is something so natural that one never feels any tension. Rather, it is a matter of imperceptible and harmonic vibrations. This affinity, this magic between them, is music that you have to know how to listen to.

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