Masculinity - Blog Posts

“we didn’t have the intention to redefine masculinity, but it feels good that we can have this positive effect or influence” — namjoon talking about breaking masculinity standards

https://youtube.com/shorts/3kgQESAB9j4?si=7rl9ME7NpPRTNNMB

Father's are the True GOATs

~🖤~

Autosabotaje Cuando pensaba qué estudiar decidí que podría ser bueno en cualquier cosa así que me incliné por trazarme un futuro como químico, quise complacer a mi madre que veía con ojos prometedores a mi hermano que estudiaba físico-matemáticas "mis hijos son unos chingones" decía y lo peor es que le creí. Mi infancia estuvo basada en la competición, siempre estaba compitiendo con mi hermano mayor y siempre perdía por diferencia de edades. Como hombre debía ser siempre el mejor, no importaba que quisiera ser barrendero, tenía que ser el mejor barrendero de México; si me peleaba en la escuela y "perdía" madre me golpearía peor -por pendejo-, sacaba dieces o nueves porque si no me pegaba -por pendejo-, cuando algo me salía mal por intentarlo la burla caía sobre mí -por pendejo- y así. Aprendí que como hombre tenía que ser SIEMPRE chingón, fuerte, ganador, inteligente, capaz. Aprendí a competir por amor, a dejar a un lado mis necesidades para conservarlo, a tenerle miedo al fracaso, a menoscabar a otros para minimizar su potencial de ganarme, etc. Hice mío todo aquello que me dijeron, lo interioricé a tal grado que hasta se lo enseñaba a los niños de mi derredor. Entonces me hallé inscrito en mis prejuicios, fracasé en química, en mi relación de pareja, al elegir a mis amistades; no me soportaba ni a mí mismo y le tenía pavor a intentar nada, entonces entendí que lo que me llevó a ese punto fue lo que aprendí de niño y me lo creí -por pendejo-. . . . . . . . #masculinity #acrylicpainting #contemporarypainter #art_ curator #experiences #flesh #autosabotaje #conceptions #boxed #impressionism #contemporaryart #acryliconwood #figurative #figurativepainting #body #isaacCM (en Mexico City, Mexico) https://www.instagram.com/p/BpYLBvIgayT/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=4qnvcqezrm9q

Crecimos por fuera pero no por dentro #lanostalgiadelosgigantes. Se grow on the outside but not on the inside. . . . . . . #contemporarypainter #mexicanartist #watercolorart #contemporarywatercolour #nostalgia #masculinity #giants #childrenplay #acuarelacontemporanea #mexican #isaaccruz #mosaic #newnarrative

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“Entrega” - pastel sobre tabla texturizada.

Is it okay for a masculine guy to be drawn to women with more feminine traits? I don't know why I'm stuck on this, but I find myself really attracted to feminine energy—not the needy or childish kind, but something in between that feels right for my soul. I'm trying to figure out if I should go for someone with a more feminine vibe or someone with a more masculine energy.

Who be judging these cases.. The judge should be sued👀😳😯😮😲

COOOWWBBOOOYYYZZ💪🏾💯🏈💫⭐🌟.

"... Mind turning around?"

(Repost - after Tumblr moral policing)

It is indeed funny to observe a fully grown, quite-masculine a man to show his softer side and request for a permission to use my hips. And mind it, it’s not something that’s apparent only in the men I have known before, but even with most that I have been sent as a courtesan to, or even by the ones I got myself ‘hunted’ down and then taken away with him.

I have observed that most men, feel that the conquest over their woman isn’t complete until they have done something that is drastic enough to either make their efforts to do it look satisfactory, or, they have inflicted (which sometimes may just be a belief) pain on their woman to make her cringe before him and submit. Both of these conditions are satisfied when they receive the consent to do it there, for no matter how experienced one is, it still needs effort to get into the ‘position’ and the inflicted ‘pain’ when the union happens.

In either case, an element of force becomes necessary for him to convey the message to the woman that she is his property, for minutes/hours/days, however temporary the ownership is. The need to establish control has been a fundamental criteria, more with the men who have hunted me and those I have been sent to as a part of my courtesan arrangement. My husbands have been more secure and they know that they don’t need to ask me for my permission to use my hips. They have developed the ability to sense my mood and know the answer even before they would ask. The hunters, on the other hand would feel the need to exert authority and it is often when after they have attained the primary satisfaction, and is in mood to pleasure himself once more, would have popped the question, “mind turning around? really feel like using your hips”…well, that’s actually a much watered down version of the actual words used to convey their desire.

Being asked that question makes me feel proud as a woman. It tells me that he found me attractive enough to want to explore more about me. The element of pain involved in allowing a man to 'use my hips’ is always present, but the satisfaction from knowing that I am being owned by him and he is getting satisfaction from ‘using me’ for that phase is exciting enough for me to usually consent to his request for use.

And peaceful

Having a man lead and make the decisions for you is so comforting 💕