Take Care Of Yourself - Blog Posts

Agreed. Sometimes, I'm so focused on orders on the job board or deadlines, that I forget that I need to take care of myself as well. Remember, you can't pour from an empty cup.

By Top Girl studio.

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romanticize your life. i cannot stress this enough. use scented shower gel and shampoo, so you look forward to showers. go on walks and see how pretty the sky looks. notice the wildflowers on the roadside as you drive. light a candle when you get home to make your room smell good. notice & appreciate the little things in life. it won't cure your mental illness, but it'll make it easier to exist in this world.

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It's almost summer. The season where we can go to beaches and not have to worry so much about school assignments. Vacation time is started. So have fun, worry less. Dye you hair that color, get that swimsuit, become the person you want to be. Here is a friendly reminder to be yourself this summer, and don't change for others. Live how you want to live.

Trying to figure out why I feel like ass then remembering i havent had anything to drink in like 5 hours

Aaj mera holi nhi logo ko Bye Bye karna chal rha 😅....

Reminder to self:

I just have to say something. Omg. I read your most recent post and I've reread it so many times tonighy, and maybe it's because I'm sleep deprived but it made me ugly cry so hard and I couldn't stop going back to it, like it's so surreal and I'm sorry.

AH I'm sorry!! Thankyou for reading it and it's okay I'm okay, I haven't seen him in years. 💚

Regardless of your body type, regardless of your looks, the only thing that will ever make someone ugly. Is their personality.

If you are mean to people who are just trying to be nice? If you bully people for having interests? If you bully people for the things that bring them comfort? If you bring down someone just because of what they're wearing or their looks? If you start arguments and bully people for not having the same opinion as you? If you never try to respect boundaries or triggers? If you don't respect people's choices that are opposite to yours? You are the ugliest person I've ever seen. So ugly I don't even wanna look at you. So ugly I don't even want to be around you.

But if you are nice, back to the people that are nice to you? If you encourage those interests. If you willingly go out of your way to help someone who's clearly struggling? If you respect and understand the boundaries and triggers? If your kind to yourself and take care of yourself along with others? If you go out of your way to pick up trash on the ground? If your kind, regardless of how mean people are? If you respect people's opinions, even if they are opposite to your? If you respect people's choices, even if you don't fully understand them? God you're beautiful. You're so stunning and gorgeous that I can't stop looking at you.

Looks don't matter. They don't. You can match the "perfect beauty standards" and be the ugliest person I've ever seen. Or you can be "ugliest" person in terms of "beauty standards," and I would want to portrait of you just to look how beautiful you are.

But there are exceptions.

All body types are beautiful and gorgeous, but there is a point where it can be harmful. You can be so skinny, I can see your ribs & it wouldn't make me admire your diet or your figure but that would make me worry you aren't eating enough and not taking good care of yourself. You can be obese and overweight, and that would not make you ugly, no not at all, but it would make you unhealthy and sick. And it would make me worry if you're taking proper care of yourself. There's a balance.

The point of this post is that the beauty standards of today are messed up and twisted. And at some point, people need to realize that the things that make a person beautiful or not their looks. But their personality. And while people are right to point out that all body types are beautiful! There's a point where it becomes dangerous to yourself and unhealthy. And the world needs to realize that.

So please, if not for anyone else, please take care of yourself for me. Will you? I love you. I hope you have an awesome day.

You deserved none of this cruelty it's not your fault some anons will be jerks and will try to bring you down and none of your stories are bad they're honestly really good there may need tweaking here and there but they're really good and you have a passion for it don't let others try and bring you down you are amazing

Another day, another shitty anon come confessing their relationship problems with a yandere blog💀💀

I sometimes wonder what have I done to deserve this cruelty... Am I not writing enough, is my writing shitty, is this why I'm getting this nonsense? This feels like a punishment for something but I frankly have no clue what.

Hey I may not completely understand what you're going through but I know changes are terrifying and especially leaving something that was basically your comfort zone for half of your life but know that you're not alone I'm here to talk to if you want and so are other people, If you need a shoulder to cry on or anything else or to just vent let me know and I'll be there and don't rush yourself to start writing the stories take as long as you need you don't need to rush things you don't need to put more pressure on yourself take some time off and give yourself a mental break ok have a good day

I'm. Home alone at my dad's cat sitting for him so I'll try and get some writings done 😌 I've been stressed lately because of something my mom said.. She wants to move but I don't want to move because if we do then I'll be away from my dad and my friends... And I just can't.. *sighs* I can barely take care of my self tbn 😭 I keep having bad dreams about this but I'm doing my best.. I'm just not ready to move especially from a home I've lived in since elementary school... 😫 but I'll get back to writing soon..

Every now and then I stumble upon posts by artists discussing how to improve at drawing. Some are sharing experiences, while others are asking for advice… and sadly I often get the vibe that being scared and miserable is a requirement for success. Like, if you’re not ready to destroy yourself for your goal then you aren’t really trying and you don’t deserve any success. People are proud of how much they are sacrificing for their skill. Hard work and dedication are definitely important but some of the things I get to read on the internet are plain harmful. It really pains me to see people spread this unhealthy mindset and people as young as their teens believing it.

Please remember: You don’t need to hurt yourself to deserve success.

Be kind to yourself, eat and sleep regularly, give your hands some rest, hang out with friends, do activities that aren’t related to your goal. Staying healthy and balanced is the best way to enjoy what you’re doing – this will keep you motivated and allow you to get things done. We’re all different and if you’re someone who needs more rest and attention to their health then others – it’s ok! You deserve to be healthy as much as you deserve to succeed!

gonna get a little silly and goofy with this one

i’ve been rotting in bed with a fever for four days now which means it’s been four days since i’ve felt the cold, smooth touch of my keyboard and mouse💔

on one end, i’ve been meaning to let what i last wrote marinate for a bit, but on the other miserable end, i miss entering the makeshift portal i’ve created into my characters’ world (‘:

i have had plenty of time to conjure up a million potential storyline ideas that might not ever even come to fruition anyway, so there’s that!

me 🤝 my notes app

psa even davinci crashes from time to time. in case you were wondering