Youngest Child - Blog Posts

Is it just me?

When I was younger I grew up 1 brother, but also many of his friends. Almost every summer until COVID, we would challenge one another to eat bugs. Even as a teenager (15), I thought almost everyone had eaten a bug once as a joke or a dare. Is it just me?

Here the cute daughter of Kevin and jasmine levin and younger sister to Delvin, Yasmin the flirty

Currently 16

Race:Vietnamese,Mexican,black,white,Greek

One of Esperanza’s best friends and travel buddy when it comes to missions worked with the next gen legion when she was younger but now works as a plumber after finishing school early while working at her family’s bakery and restaurants

Here we have Esperanza counting her birthday money

She is rude daughter of astel cruel and Trajan

And little sister to Rafael and axel/roberto

Astel belongs to me

I don’t know the creator of Trajan

This might be her design I don’t know

She currently 15 in the picture and the third reincarnation of her grandmother

It’s just the fact that everyone talks about the youngest child being pampered - and, yeah, sure sometimes that’s true, but if you think about the implications of even that, it gets sad. Because by being ‘pampered’ you mean being given everything that you want. Oh, you want $10 to go buy something. Sure! Oh, you want a new game. Here ya go! But there are no guidelines.

You might think that’s a good thing - freedom and all that jazz. But most of the time it just makes you feel like they don’t care. This is most common when the youngest is a teen, because the middle and oldest have already moved out or gotten independence, and your parents have forgotten that they’re still parents. Give the other person who lives in their house a tenner so that they don’t have to deal with them. They can have the game because what else are they gonna do all day when we’re on holiday?

As a youngest child, this just prompts you to grow up quicker. Get more mature so you don’t have to bother them anymore, because they’re not your parents, they’re just the people you live with. As far as they’re concerned, they’re done. They’ve reared children, those children have left, so who cares about the last one?

But the problem is; you can’t grow up. Because you’re 13 or 14 or 15 or 16 - you can’t legally leave. You feel like more of a burden, not just because you’re still there, but because you’re the only one still there. Everyone else has moved on and you’re stuck looking at the bedrooms they used to have and the bedrooms that the other people sleep in. And then you wonder, do I really have it as good as people say I do?

Specifically, Tim is for the kids who had parents with undiagnosed trauma and mental illnesses. The ones who had to gentle parent their own parents. The ones that have to remain stable even when they can't because they are needed.

Dick is for the eldest children that feel constant guilt for how their actions affect the rest of the family. In success, you set a standard too high for them and in failure you're taking away resources(time, emotional energy, money) that should have been theirs.

Somewhere in between, relating to them both, is the youngest that has to be happy all the time for the family to function. The one that gets made fun of when you need a joke. But also the one that knows everyone's triggers and is always paying attention to everyone's mood. The one whose work is never recognized because no one else has to be home as much as them, everyone else gets a break but them.

Dick is for the eldest sibling while Tim is for the parentified children and I think that's the most important difference between them

I think eldest daughters are usually closer their moms and tend to have more issues with them while youngest daughters are closer with their fathers and have issues with them