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This is one of the days when I can't sleep in peace because there's a lot of things in my mind that I can't help but have a conversation with myself.
I know am hurt. I want to be petty and complain.
But I'm also trying to forgive by giving myself reason on why I should.
Anaïs Nin, from “The diary of Anaïs Nin, vol. 3: 1939-1944”
I like sleep.
So if I ever skip sleep for you, that just shows I love you so much.
Other than that, dont flatter yourself.
Please.
People who really know me knows that I process information slowly and forget it very fast as well.
If you're not in my circle, I don't care if you cried or died, I'm not gonna shed a tear.
Someone told me I was heartless in 6th grade and now, I've made that my character theme.
Thank you!
in your 20’s find a balance between hustle & rest. you don’t need to have a love life or a soulmate figured out. go travel the world. battle your demons. set up a business, find people who value your heart & yours will attract. don’t live in the past, you have so much more to see
The feelings that I have buried under the ground for a long time are coming up.
Conceal, don't feel.
Go away.
The number of times I've changed my ringtone to make it peaceful is insane.
The moment I hear my ringtone, all the peace and silence leaves me with the coming onset of dread and anxiety.
“A bird sitting on a tree is never afraid of the branch breaking because her trust is not in the branch but in her own wings. Always believe in yourself.”
—
Charlie Wardle
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Constantly reminding that this body is fighting for you to be alive.
Stop belittling yourself.
I'm not the friend who would click pictures.
I'm the friend who would ask you to send the pictures later.
When thinking about life,
Remember this:
No amount of guilt can change the past
And no amount of anxiety can change the future.
Do we actually like working or just receiving the money?
When I was 15, studying about how millions of sperm were released but only one could fertilize the egg, my teacher told us that we were winners in the race of life.
I felt pretty special back then. Not anymore though!
I just didn't realise there were billions of winners on earth. My teacher missed that point out on purpose.
"Is education important or making money?"
you’re given two choices! to evolve or repeat
You gain points if you send “I know you’re asleep but…” texts. They’re my fav.
What I've learned throughout my 20's
1. Don't tell your family everything. it will backfire.
2. Don't tell your closest friends everything. it will backfire.
3. Never tell anyone about how much you have in your account. that's only for you and the bank to know.
4. Work hard in silence.
5. Don't chase men. Chase your goals.
6. Don't be too kind. not everyone has your heart.
7. There will never be anyone like you.
8. Read as many books as you can. Knowledge is power.
9. Wear sunscreen every single day. your skin will thank you later on.
10. Prioritize solitude time. your soul needs it.
11. Try to eat at home more often, the food is surrounded by your own energy.
12. Don't wake up to your phone screen. What are you going to get out of that?
13. Just like binge eating, binge watching is also not healthy. Go live!
14. Water is your best friend.
15. Education will never leave you.
16. Say how you feel once. and only once. if you find yourself repeating the same things, they don't care.
17. Everyday is a special occasion, because you're alive.
18. You know yourself better than anyone ever will. So who cares about those who judge you, their opinions aren't paying you.
19. Abusive men don't change. they just change their tactics.
20. It's better to say no than to feel uncomfortable.
21. Social media is a commercial.
22. If you lost yourself, you will find a way back.
23. Listen to your inner child. She needs you and you need her.
24. Love who you are no matter what state you are in.
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